Would a guy want to be asked out at the gym?

Ragondux · 2017-07-24T05:46:04+00:00

A guy wants to be asked out pretty much anywhere (unless he's worried about his "masculine prerogative" I suppose).

midnight_toker22 · 2017-07-24T17:47:12+00:00

Pretty much the only time I would not be receptive to a woman asking me out on a date is if I was out on a date with another woman. And even then it would only be out of consideration to my date.

Garconanokin · 2017-07-24T16:16:34+00:00

Of course a guy would – – only women have hangups about where they want to be asked out

2017-07-24T05:01:31+00:00

Sure, just ask them how to use a particular exercise machine properly as an opener.

danielinthebox · 2017-07-24T08:56:51+00:00

Hell yeah

2017-07-24T21:22:01+00:00

Yes, ask me out.

Murfdigidy · 2017-07-25T02:32:42+00:00

Okay to ask a guy out anywhere

But guys should never ask a girl out at the gym. Unless youve talked on multiple occasions and/or have gained some comfortable banter asking a girl at the gym is off limits.

Girls are vulnerable at the gym and they feel gross because they're sweaty and not dolled up. A girls greatest seduction is her beauty, gym (in her eyes) takes that away

Peter-Keating · 2017-07-25T12:12:23+00:00

ask us out anywhere, except for when we're answering nature's call

2017-07-24T15:23:49+00:00

I wouldn't do it in the middle of their workout at least.

Some people have their shit timed to the minute, I know I do. Stopping me in the middle of that to ask me out would really piss me off and I'm not even a huge on fitness guy.

Get at em before they start or after they finish and you should be fine.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2017-07-24T16:01:10+00:00

if they are single they will most likely be down

BaalZebib · 2017-07-24T16:56:13+00:00

Are you a dude?

Ssobolibats · 2017-07-24T10:22:44+00:00

You're not sweaty and gross all the time (I hope) so if you're insecure about that just ask them something in the beginning of a work out.

I know I would appreciate it wherever you ask me and unless I don't have time would most likely say yes.

My advice would be to start slow. As somebody else said, ask about how to use a machine or do a certain exercise properly. Assuming that you're looking for a guy with a brain, if he has one he'll know what's up and might ask you out himself.

QualityHash · 2017-07-24T13:50:35+00:00

If it was me I'd want to be asked out at a good time, if I just beat my record or something. However, if I had embarrassed myself I would not like to be asked out. I'd say try to judge how he feels at the time you want to ask him out.

the_christian_grey · 2017-07-24T05:01:07+00:00

IMO girls should never ask out guys. It robs him of his masculine prerogative and it makes you look really desperate. Better to give him a look, maybe smile at him, or if he still doesn't get the hint make up some excuse to talk to him, like asking him how to use an exercise machine. If he doesn't make a move at that point, he's not interested.

Title	Would a guy want to be asked out at the gym?
Author	_cymru
Upvotes	10
Comments	19
Date	July 24, 2017 4:38 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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