How do you respond to what are we going to do?

IANAPUA_Yet · 2017-08-24T18:11:35+00:00

"What are we going to do?" is a polite way of saying, "I'm not going to jump immediately into bed with you, so I hope you have something planned to break the ice first."

So... come up with something and tell her.

2017-08-24T17:56:21+00:00

Tell her: "We are going to build a blanket fort"

Jack__Knife · 2017-08-24T20:44:05+00:00

She says okay then asks what we're doing.

"Well we're for sure not having sex! I'm not easy like that!"

whatathroe · 2017-08-24T16:57:20+00:00

Grab a few drinks, talk, get to know each other? Don't overthink it, imo. Not everything you do has to be engineered, the whole aspect of it is that women are people too. If they're very keen on coming, be straightforward. If they're not as excited, then you can embellish a bit.

2017-08-24T19:31:06+00:00

Think of something that gives you and her plausible deniability

champlu · 2017-08-25T00:42:10+00:00

Women are like an oven. They have to be preheated first. You should always have a side activity to do when hanging with them because it sounds a little bad if they just come over to bang

gapatronh · 2017-08-24T18:46:34+00:00

"I don't know, but I wanna do it with you"

redjedi182 · 2017-08-24T23:47:37+00:00

Tell her you need help Moving Furniture. Answer the door in chore clothes.

BrettEllisDotNet · 2017-08-25T05:24:05+00:00

She doesn't want to be used as your cum dumpster and you need to understand that she needs plausible deniability so when her "friend" Stacy asks what she got up to, she isn't slut shamed.

I get that you just want to get laid. Congrats. But just because you want to use some chick as a fleshlight, doesn't mean that shes going to be up for it.

There is a process that women need to feel safe and comforted that you aren't someone who just wants to use her as an ego validation tool. Now, it looks like you are, but you have to be honest about it and understand that women don't just want to get fucked they want to have a fun time with a cool guy, then hopefully finish off the night with some great sex.

Go and have a fun adventure with her. Go do something FUN. There is more to life than squirting semen out the end of your cock and getting her to leave. You're better off going to buy a hooker if you are just after a transaction, because manipulating some young girl so you can boost your ego isn't doing you (or the rest of us) any long term favours.

DirkDieGurke · 2017-08-24T19:27:20+00:00

Afterparty

Willbo · 2017-08-25T06:46:08+00:00

As a suggestion, tell her you're going to cook her homemade lasagna and watch a movie. Bitches love lasagna.

LikeableAssholeBro · 2017-08-24T17:02:50+00:00

Easiest is to meet for drinks, then segue into:

"I've been bingeing Planet Earth recently, you have got to see the episode about the Himalayas"

Minions movie.

"I've been listening to these vinyls from (whoever), there's this one (song, artist, album) you'll love"

Title	How do you respond to what are we going to do?
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Upvotes	18
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Date	August 24, 2017 3:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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