well tonight I went out to the bar. I was feeling good as fuck about myself, just got a haircut, was dressed good, good mindset, etc. Anyway, so I went downtown with my friends. As we leave one bar, my friend randomly goes back inside to talk to some girls. They tell him that they are are to a bar down the street. This gave me motivation. I pussied out inside. Didn't talk to any of the girls. So I said fuck that. Any proceeded.
As we were walking to another bar, there were 2 girls outside talking to the bouncer. So I said something, don't remember exactly what. I ended up talking to a girl who was with her cousin. I said lets go inside. He let us in for free with no cover.
We went inside. I bought her a drink. We started talking. I bought her another drink and we were totally into each other. About an hour later my friend came over (who I originally came to the bar with), and started talking to her while I went to the bathroom. I come back, my friend leaves.
The girl I am talking to came with her cousin. Her cousin is totally into this other guy.
This girl and I talk some more. And more. And more. And more. I buy her a few more drinks.
Her, her cousin, me, and the guy her cousin met are all walking back to their apartment. Mind you, she told me straight off the bat that her roommate is a bitch and that her and her cousin share a BED.
So we are walking back. Long story short this girl has her hands all over me. I am not one to really worry about talking to girls, as I dealt with drug addiction and that kind of secluded me from all social life.
This was the first girl I really talk to at a bar. Got her snapchat. We talked for about 2 hours. Long story short we talked back to their house, I made out with her for around 2 and a half hours straight. She told me shes a virgin. So we were just on her living room floor cuddling and making until her bitch of a roommate came out and bitched us out and kicked us out (the guy her cousin met and me).
This was the first time I really connected with a girl. Got her snapchat. We were outside her apartment making out until about 4 am (about 5 am right now). This girl didn't want me to leave. Her hands were all over me. Mind you, I don't have much experience with girls either, so this was really the first time I actually talk to a girl outside a bar and excelled shit.
I am speechless right now. I would have stayed the night at her house if her housemate didn't wake us up.
I got her snapchat. Told her I wold hit her up tomorrow and that we would meet next week to go out for a drink, etc.
How should I go about asking her, when should I hit her up tomorrow, what should I say, etc? I am still worrying about this part. Although, this whole experience brought my confidence up 10 fold.
UPDATE
So, I messaged her this afternoon around 3. She responded instantly, which made me feel great. I told her I had a great time last night and really enjoyed getting to know her. She just moved here 2 weeks ago, so I asked if she is free on Friday or Saturday (of the upcoming week), and suggested we hand out and I can show her around the city (which will most likely be just walking around, because my car is crapping out right now and she doesn't have one).
She responded back immediately and said the same thing back to me - she really enjoyed last night, and sent a few smiley faces as well. Her housemate essentially came into the living room at 4 am while we were making out and cuddling, and said right away that I had to leave (along with the guy her cousin brought home). I joked around with her in the text and said I hope it wasn't too awkward this morning with her housemate - she said don't worry about it and that her housemate sucks.
She told me she will let me know what days she is free this upcoming week. I responded "perfect" sent a few smiley faces, and that was that. Short and sweet, and there wasn't anymore dialog between us since.
I don't want to come off as needy, so I am guessing it would be best to keep the texting at a minimum? Or is there something I should do to keep her interest? I have no doubt we will be meeting next week/weekend. What I am thinking is that I will text her midweek (Weds) if she doesn't get back to me by that. I am planning on asking her on Wednesday if she got her work schedule yet and then also ask if she'd like to join me for a drink the following day (Thursday) at this local brewery I usually frequent.
Still figuring all this out. So, should I essentially just not talk to her/text her until midweek, when I ask her (assuming she doesn't hit me up by then). Also, I know this is a pretty insignificant question, but should I tell her she is welcomed to join me for a drink ON Thursday, the day I plan to go, OR the day before (Wednesday).
Any other advice I should follow between now and then? I am still somewhat anxious, but no where near how I used to be when interacting with females. Mind you, this is the first girl I have really talked to in a while, and THE first girl I ever picked up and approached. I don't actually even remember how I approached her/what I said. It was outside a bar and her cousin was talking to another guy and I was standing right there, next thing you know shes touching my body and looking at me straight in the eyes.
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