Why Being Seen As A Player Will Help You Attract More Girls

mydeardroogs · 2018-02-10T00:58:40+00:00

This is absolutely true if you keep a "well oiled" social circle. Any girl that gets introduced into the circle from any angle will get to hear things about you and will get more and more intrigued.

ImJustSo · 2018-02-10T01:35:00+00:00

So you didn't actually say anything at all. There's no argument with premises that support your conclusions. You just posted a short blurb from the conversation and nothing else and then you went no where with your blog post.

Are you new to writing? Because it comes across like you're new to seduction and you're all of a sudden discovering things. If not, I have to assume it's because you're new to writing instead? Consider what your audience takes away after reading, without any previous knowledge about your exploits.

This seems like a dear diary post.

LingeringGnome · 2018-02-09T23:09:46+00:00

This is fantastic. It's just a total snowball effect.

Most guys will have an attitude of "I don't want her to think I like sex!" or "I don't want to offend her".

What they haven't picked up on yet is that socially valuable women (IE fit women) love the bull elk. They love men who get to the point, and who are honest.

They just do.

There's a reason why the covers on romance books are drawn the way they are. Mostly women buy those things, obviously.

BestSC86 · 2018-02-10T16:48:22+00:00

It is a balancing act which to be honest most dudes can't pull off....

Girls want to feel like guy knows what the fuck he is doing around a pussy and is attractive to other women, but NO QUALITY chick except the damaged, neighborhood sluts want to be known as another notch on some dudes bedpost.

And for the really young guys...nothing is more devastating to your ability to pull the attractive, high quality chicks in high school or a college social group than the reputation as a fuckboi. What you will find is that it is a death spiral as your "reputation" spreads the quality of your girls will go down and down.

It is only a small segment of any community that thinks the Jersey Shore is an appealing social dynamic so tread carefully in broadcasting your player status. Saw more than one kid in school who discovered pussy and thought they were the mac-daddy\playa which worked for about 2 months then they hit the wall and had to go trekking to other schools to find any chance of pussy because they screwed over the wrong girl or fucked the "wrong" girl who none of the quality girls wanted to be known as having fucked the dude that messed with "Sheila".

This takes some experience to pull off...of course, if you are talking the bigger city club scene then this would be true that having a reputation can help. And as a general rule skewing slightly toward reputation is ALWAYS better than being known as the "nice, innocent" boy who might be a good husband 10 years down the road.

Thatgod123 · 2018-02-10T00:59:13+00:00

Is the photo you OP? If so let’s talk.

tksjfjfdk294 · 2018-02-10T03:20:58+00:00

Not really sure I buy this. I've had chicks lately say "have you done before?" "I'm sure you do this all the time" and other things that call me out. Especially when I'm up front about fucking. They're into it but then they stop and are like. Wait a second. You've done this before.

Idk. I am usually able to talk my way out of it. I'm witty as fuck and girls LOVE it. I think that's the best asset to have. Being able to be funny on the drop of a hat.

But if you're being too smooth I don't see how it will help.

MicDrop2017 · 2018-02-10T03:36:17+00:00

Women like the popular guys

hawkanz · 2018-02-10T19:20:55+00:00

Just be a true legend and you'll get by kids

51f8mous · 2018-02-10T02:49:00+00:00

I started a NSFW “shoutout” snapchat account. Girls I’ve known for years and never showed the slightest interest in me have started sending me stuff to post on the account...

They have become oddly more forward with me, and some have suggested making “original content” by which I am positive they mean a sextape

Title	Why Being Seen As A Player Will Help You Attract More Girls
Author	TroyFrancisPUA
Upvotes	170
Comments	32
Date	February 9, 2018 9:43 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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