It might not have technically been a date, but yeah, it was a date. I was gonna go out with a small group, and a girl we had met recently said she wanted to go. Prior to that, I noticed that we had a lot of chemistry, and she acted like she was single and primed. The other people ended up not being able to make it, and she didn't seem disappointed in the least.

She was honest about having a boyfriend (though when I asked details, she just mumbled and didn't get into it...though around everyone else she was much more candid and straightforward about being in a committed relationship), but she ended up sitting so close our shoulders and legs were touching, taking all these selfies with me, sharing her food and expecting me to pay for the entertainment. The food and entertainment was dirt cheap, so I didn't care much about paying, and I was nonreactive about her having boyfriend. She didn't argue at all when other people called me her boyfriend or gave us the couples treatment, so I didn't feel guilty about treating her like she was single.

She told me what a great time she had, she really wants to see me again, hopes I think about her. And her friends and family that had met me didn't seem disturbed by her affectionate behavior toward me. The country in which I'm living is known for being sexually conservative (casual hookups aren't a part of the culture).

So what do you think is going on here?