How do you consistently have multiple sexual relationships at the same time?

justadudedudethrow · 2018-06-29T03:35:08+00:00

Be honest about what you want and find women who want the same thing. There are plenty of women that will go for just sex if you're clear about it. Just don't forget that all the rules of seduction still apply.

Edit: Practical tips.

Learn how to dance, anything that's close and physical works. So bachata, salsa or even ballroom works. But I'd suggest bachata or salsa because these have clubs are full of women who are looking for some fun. When you're there learn to sort the ones who just want to dance from the ones who want something more. Always be respectful. Also don't go to a club to learn how to dance, take actual lessons and practice.

If you don't like dancing then try cooking classes, again full of single women.

Also if you go for a group, entertain the whole group but only pick one girl as a target. Nobody likes to be second choice.

As for the whole sex thing itself. Set boundaries, if you have a wife and you don't want to have sex in your marital bed, then say this. If you don't want to cuddle, just say so but then don't start cuddling afterwards. Keep your shit straight and communicate.

Be clear to your lovers that you're with other women. Don't lie, don't brag and don't kiss and tell. Keep their secrets but share who you are. Women will respect you for this.

Another thing is to get checked for VD regularly, ask the same from your partners. If they disagree, end it.

Last thing, keep it fun. Casual sex is about many things but mostly escapeism. It's exciting. Seduce and woo your women but never expect anything in return. Keep things fun.

You're not doing this for validation. Again, the most important thing is to communicate.

Prygon · 2018-06-29T12:50:37+00:00

It get tiring. Hedonism only makes you feel good for the moment. Parts of my life collapsed around me as I was having more sex with more girls. I personally realized that I was living the fable of the grasshopper and the ants.

You sound like you haven't had that yet, and you envy those who do. For example I was hanging out with my friend and his girlfriend and literally brought a different girl every time I saw them, at least 5 in a month and that's not including the ones he didn't see. I secretly fingered a dancer in the same room as he was in, and he had sex with his then girlfriend in the same room kinda out of out sight while others hung out.

I don't date. I didn't work 9/5, I had no social life aside from a party I get invited to every once in a while month or so (no pickup), I do not have a facebook I go on more than once a month, and I have no daily social interactions (most day I don't even leave the house). They have no effect on my sex life.

I was dry for 2 months because I did not want to interact with women, volcel as you will. I rejected girls who wanted to sleep with me because I just didn't feel like it. This week I slept with 2 girls because I did.

I don't say this to brag. I think you shouldn't just look at sex as an indicator of good socialization or success. I might not be on facebook complaining like the rest of the losers, but I'd hardly ask you to emulate my style, and I don't think you should try to copy anyone's either. You'll kill yourself being someone you're not, and maybe it will get you laid, maybe a lot, but you aren't going to be true to yourself. Don't look at someone who does well and copy their lifestyle if it isn't true to yourself.

hunterpua · 2018-06-29T16:54:58+00:00

how much does your social media, social circle and Dailey social interactions play in to your sex life

About 80% as much. Social circle game is really the key to always have someone new to sleep with.

Salesmen have to live with the reality of no work, no pay.

Business owners can live with the comfort that money will still be coming in even as they sleep.

A guy that focuses on cold approaches is like a salesman. No work, no sex.

A guy that focuses on social circle game is like a businessman. A new sexual prospect comes even while he sleeps.

uberdank · 2018-06-29T03:44:16+00:00

I dont understand your question.

Its exactly the same as fucking one girl. You just copy and paste the pickup until you have n+1 girls in rotation.

Can you be more specific?

IrvineKafka · 2018-06-29T04:18:59+00:00

Stamina.

sabinmightyfist · 2018-06-29T14:22:16+00:00

Its been a while since I've had more than one sexual partner (currently in a LTR for four years) but when I did have two consistent partners plus trying to find new ones my social circle was going out constantly. Pretty much every friday./saturday we'd go to the same venue and try and make friends and go to weekday events/parties. I'd mostly go to the same venue which made me feel comfortable in my environment and made approaching girls/making friends much easier. Honestly having a great social life will making meeting girls much easier. I'd focus on building a solid social circle (even a couple of guy friends) and just focusing on having fun.

TyroneTheSavage · 2018-06-29T07:00:27+00:00

Its all about networking. Your long-term girls can start to align with the girls you pull on the weekend or on the street. Basically try not to burn bridges and stay sexy.

This has gone down a few times for me. At one point a few years back I was dealing with 4 girls. I had a red head GF that was cheating on her BF with me. I had a Black girl who i met in college that dissed me back then, came around and we just started fucking. I had a Pacific Island girl who i think I met on Facebook and a Latin girl i met on OK Cupid or some shit.

I actually got kicked out of the place I was living in on account of girls spending the night. I had girls showing up within hours of each other. I became exhausted and the girls fell off. Just keep doing you and keep an eye out for restarting old flings or girls you liked before you had game....might be surprised.

LookItsAdamK · 2018-06-29T14:09:30+00:00

You have to figure out what you want out of/how to structure your relationships and on a macro level your life. Analyze what's important to you and how you want to divide your time.

I've been helping a girl I'm mentoring with something similar recently. I mentioned to her before how I don't do dates on the weekends and then elaborated on it as seen below.

Note that I'm mentoring her in various aspects including bdsm dom-ing, so there's some D/s-specific stuff in there that doesn't exactly apply to normal dynamics, but maybe otherwise there's something helpful in there for you: https://i.imgur.com/Tuzr8Rw.png

That voice clip she sent me after is really fucking cute: https://clyp.it/5cla5ren

Cantloginhere · 2018-06-29T03:30:27+00:00

Step one be a woman.

Step two be attractive.

Title	How do you consistently have multiple sexual relationships at the same time?
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Date	June 29, 2018 3:12 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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