How to NOT Be Creepy With Girls | 7 Things You MUST Avoid

gradcasanova · 2018-07-17T13:07:27+00:00

TL;DW:

A lot of guys do creepy stuff without realizing it. i used to think I was a cool dude in college, but a lot of girls knew me as the creepy guy until I figured out what i was doing wrong.

In this video, I highlight the behaviors that women think are creepy, and how to avoid/fix them.

These are things I've corrected in my own behavior, and they've made a huge difference.

1. Over-complimenting (instead of dishing out lots of cliche comments, pick and choose when you give compliments, and be specific with them)

2. Staring, but not approaching (If a girl notices you checking her out, then go up and approach her)

3. Too much eye contact (Make eye contact most of the time, but have it be relaxed and don't get overly intense with it. It's also okay to take breaks. You don't need to look in her eyes the whole time)

4. Lack of social calibration (i.e. not reading social cues and social situations the right way. Practice being more aware of cues and present in the moment - this is something you gradually improve with over time)

5. Being overly sexual (For the most part, you should avoid talking explicitly about sex with a girl until you've actually had sex with her. Otherwise it ruins the mystery and makes her feel slutty about going home with you )

6. Crowding her space (Don't get all up in her bubble right away - give her some room to breathe)

7. Not driving the conversation (don't just say hi - take control and lead the conversation)

Hope this helps you guys. I go over stories and examples in the video for further clarification.

If you have any other creepy behavior you feel should be included, drop it in the comments below!

2018-07-17T22:49:48+00:00

Staring and not approaching is huge for me. Girls notice me noticing them all the time. Very rarely do I approach. Never thought that checking girls out and having them reciprocate commenced a window of opportunity.

H8CourtshipALot217 · 2018-12-07T06:35:32+00:00

I sometimes wonder if leading the conversation, does that mean doing most of the talking, the one actually speaking the most

fallout52389 · 2018-07-17T19:08:28+00:00

I’m good at all these anyway but I do have a question if you can help me with it?

With the staring one I get what you mean if it’s in a situation where you might only see the girl once. But I like this girl at work, I stare at her sometimes I wouldn’t say it’s overdone like once or twice a day while walking past her department about 10 times. Most of the time I let her catch me but hardly ever approach to talk as I don’t want to be friend zoned.

Title	How to NOT Be Creepy With Girls \| 7 Things You MUST Avoid
Author	gradcasanova
Upvotes	54
Comments	13
Date	July 17, 2018 1:06 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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