When you are doing night game be careful not to become one of the observers. Observers are invisible unless they are girls. You hear a lot of guys talking about how you should just go out and focus on having fun and not to get caught up chasing after girls. Well there is some truth to that but let's not forget that I'm not out to dance or buy over priced drinks, I'm out for the soul purpose of talking to girls. Of course the point is that if you don't focus on girls you will be more likely to attract them and the chances of naturally interacting with them will be much higher. This is true, but why is that?

It's because you become one of the observed instead of an observer. You are engaged with your friends and having fun. When you don't have any game then this is really a better strategy then standing around watching girls nervously as you try to build up the courage to talk to one, just to end up getting blown out and lowering your already low mood lol.

So let me share with you some strategy of being an observer. When I enter a venue I like do a dance move as soon as I enter lol. Everyone sees me enter and I immediately become the observed. I'm laughing and talking to my wing as we walk straight to a place to post up like the bar to get a drink if I feel like drinking. I'm aware of what's going on around me but I'm engaged with whoever I'm with.

We have a rule that after the first 5 minutes of being there, if we aren't in a set, then we are opening a set. We live by this rule instead of the 3 seconds to approach rule. I don't like that rule for nightgame for a lot of reasons that I won't get into. I like to open indirect because it allows me to work the observed angle much better. There's no reason for a girl to reject me because I'm not polarizing her right off the bat. This allows me to get locked into 95% of the sets I open, even if the girls are bitchy and not interested in the slightest.

I'll open the set with the hottest girls in the place first, because the hottest girls are being observed by everyone. Noone ever really sees guys open a set like that and get locked in with no problems. It's really a rare thing to witness unless you go out with pua's. This automatically gives me a shit ton of social value. Doesn't even matter if the girls are into you as long as you are at least on neutral ground which is easy to do when you go indirect properly.

If they are very receptive to my charms then I'm good. Im already locked into a set with some of the hottest girls so all i have to do is run my game and my wing man will come in to back me up. From here things get good. You have a ton of social value which is equivalent to looking like a model or something. You will notice a bunch of girls looking at you and smiling and trying to get your attention. Sometimes managers will come up and give us free drinks or free VIP. Girls will even approach us or stand near by hoping we notice them.

From this place of social power your options open right up. If the girls weren't receptive to you in the first set then you can blow them out like a pimp and open the hot girls right next to them who are going to be a lot more open to you because of the social proof you already built up. Then you will be adding to your social proof and no set goes to waste.

This is why we are always either in a set or opening a set, we don't want to fuck up the momentum will built up. Just remember that when you are the observed, girls will always be watching you. Watch your body language and even if things arnt going how you want in the set you are in, there are ways to make it appear like that's not the case. Leaning back, doing lots of kino, laughing and dancing for no reason are examples.

I think of the whole night as one mega set. Practicing this style of night game can really have your night snow balling into an amazing experience every time you go out. Most of the time I'm having such a good time that getting laid becomes sort of insignificant. Every night starts to feel like those rare times where you wake up in the morning and you think "what a fucking great night".

p.s. wear suits lol