Before you go out sarging or whatever, you need to decide if your goal is to get laid or to actually get better. Sure you can get better while trying to get laid and vice versa but there’s a huge difference between the two mindsets.

How about a good sports analogy to illustrate my point. There’s a huge difference between when you are practicing basketball and when you are in the game actually playing. You don’t just start running laps and doing drills in the middle of a game and you sure as hell aren’t playing a game to win while you are at practice.

I promise you guys that if you go out with the mindset of practicing it will not only help you avoid being outcome dependent, you will learn at a much quicker rate and you will feel a lot less pressure to succeed. Have an idea of a single thing you are trying to improve on and then work on it.

I started by just opening set after set and just seeing what openers worked best for me. Then I started practicing hooking points, then stacks, then kino, then compliance test, then banter, then isolation, then kiss closes, then set merging, then bouncing and so on.

It didn’t matter if I could probably get laid if I didn’t try some crazy routine I read about or if I could take a girl home 20min into the night from some random stroke of luck. I was on a very specific mission every single time I went out. I had a problem rolling off sets for no reason so I made myself stay in the very first set I opened for the entire night.

I know guys that play basketball for 20 years and still suck dick. It’s not because they don’t play enough, it’s because they don’t practice enough. It’s the same thing for game. I don’t have to practice anymore because I’m as good as I care to be, now I just go out and play.

TLDR: If I could break it down into one sentence then I probably would have. Read, it’s good for you, you lazy bastards lol.