How to stop being bitter/angry/resentful?....

Kukantiz · 2018-11-20T05:34:27+00:00

If this post is serious, then you need to take your focus away from women and focus on yourself. Go back and re-read your post. Would any woman want that? Now what's the one thing in your power to change to make your life better? You. So, work on yourself for a bit. If you're unattractive, hit the gym and learn to dress better. Get some interesting things about you. People are attracted to confident people and you don't sound confident. You damn well won't give off confidence in your body language.

None of the shit on this subreddit will ever work if you don't believe it about yourself first. It's easier to believe when you can look yourself in the mirror and honestly say that you're working on it.

Ninjarro · 2018-11-20T05:33:55+00:00

Trust the process. Don’t think of the end result. You need to totally change your mindset

junhwes · 2018-11-20T05:55:58+00:00

As per the other posts, you need to have more self confidence in yourself. There's no point in moping about your lack of social skills/aesthetics/whatever else it is if you're not willing to change it. Many of the men who are with successful women probably were in your position too at one point, but they decided to change something about themselves to make themself better and more "successful". Focus on smaller steps first, rather than improving every single thing at the same time and be patient with the process, everything you have expressed dissatisfaction in takes time to rebuild.

And never base your self worth or validate yourself based on how you think women perceive you. We are only our harshest critics and whilst you may think your the dorkiest guy, I'm sure there are some women out there who don't want the extraverted type of guy, but someone who is more down to earth. But first, you must have confidence in yourself!

JUST_WANTTOBEHAPPY · 2018-11-20T10:14:36+00:00

Resentful is easy to grow when you are not actively taking result to better yourself. It's easier to complain then to ask what can I do next to better myself.

LingeringGnome · 2018-11-21T10:27:12+00:00

Gym, hit the weights 3-4x a week. Cut carbs to reduce face bloat. If your hair is thinning, shave your head and own it.
Purchase non-faded clothing (shirts with collars).
Read more books than you watch TV.
focus on your career, and a passionate hobby or two.
Every time you see a woman you're attracted to in a store or bar, approach and say hi. If you can't get these women out on dates, approach a lower tier.
Seduce the women who are cool with you, improve your bedroom skills.

Bitterness gone.

Rinse, repeat.

Title	How to stop being bitter/angry/resentful?....
Author	tgod1811
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	November 20, 2018 5:25 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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