How can girls tell if a guy has gained confidence?

Renegader933 · 2019-06-02T23:39:52+00:00

Body language

Tonality

Word choice

Behaviours

More specifically .. you probably are doing one or more of the following: sitting/standing straight, not hesitating as much, direct eye contact, speaking more loudly, touching more, moving gracefully or with a strut, taking up space, speaking to more people, disagreeing, speaking up etc.

Girls won’t go through this checklist they will notice this intuitively, and they will just “feel your vibes” as more confident.

2019-06-02T23:40:52+00:00

It's about how you carry yourself. Self-assured, without being arrogant. Secure and confident, without being a prick.

If you gained confidence, without letting it go to your head, you're winning at life, and can do anything.

smittyjr95 · 2019-06-02T23:59:59+00:00

Body language is obviously huge. The average girl can "read a room" better than the average guy. But honestly sometimes it's not even anything that actually has to do w/ confidence. Sometimes you get a bit taller, dress better, or bigger and you may give off the appearance that you're more confident.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-06-03T02:49:40+00:00

.....last year I was very unconfident and this year I’m more confident, but my girlfriend said that’s what attracted her to me right before she started flirting with me and we started dating. How can girls tell?

Small point of order: It's not just girls that can tell. Those things that Sink_Flower234 listed off, are things that everyone around you will notice.

sailor-jackn · 2019-06-03T04:29:01+00:00

It’s in the way you walk and the way you move. It’s in your voice and how you speak. It’s in you’re eye context.

2019-06-03T05:23:03+00:00

It's amazing how much of a difference one tiny stutter, voice quiver, too much/too little eye contact makes during a first impression. The difference between awkward creep and smooth operator.

Pokemastra · 2019-06-03T08:02:01+00:00

Your voice, eye contact, the way you carry yourself physically, your demeanor, being social, and paying attention to your movements are all ways girls can tell if a guy has gained confidence.

WhatsReddit123456 · 2019-06-03T21:09:09+00:00

Guys who walks with chest out is confident.

Title	How can girls tell if a guy has gained confidence?
Author	Renegader933
Upvotes	10
Comments	12
Date	June 2, 2019 11:36 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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