Can talk to girls without any problem but I feel like I'm not able to attract them.

Forsheezie · 2019-06-25T13:18:44+00:00

Good job on the approaching but here is where you’re going wrong.

You have the thought in your head that you can’t attract women. You’re shooting yourself in the foot before you even talk to them.
You’re approaching women wanting something from them, ie their attraction. Just talk to girls to talk and you decide if they are worth your time.

Good luck out there, friend

chillUglyCuck · 2019-06-25T12:31:56+00:00

I feel like I’m in the same boat. Just praying for a girl to approach me. I would be so excited. 😂 I’ve just faced the facts that girls never gonna approach no matter how hot a guy is

brokenJawAlert · 2019-06-25T13:22:54+00:00

I realized that when they are talking to you -let's say in a bar- and your body is not facing them, same as your face, they tend to try harder to gain your attention, so this puts them in the position of "I need this guy's attention". Of course you don't just ignore them, but you actually look away when they are talking to you and then suddenly look them in the eyes for a few seconds, then look away. I even had girls starting to move to the front of my body when they were talking. If you are all drunk this works better XD

ExtraCheesePlease88 · 2019-06-25T13:26:57+00:00

Maybe you come off as too friendly, and brother type?

warm_theory · 2019-06-25T13:09:26+00:00

You have to convey intention and show sexuality. Work on your teases and calibrated physical escalations.

happi-lee · 2019-06-25T13:34:18+00:00

I think sometimes guys think they aren’t attracting women but they are interested! Just as shy as you are at taking it to the next level

2019-06-25T13:46:25+00:00

Zan Perrion describes the two types of energy of a man in this video. Upper energy, is an ability you seem to have, ie keeping the conversation rolling and telling jokes. But Lower energy is what you need to balance your top heavy energy with. Its deep and low, and it allows you to move with no chance of getting friend zoned.

Check out Zan's Book, The Alabaster Girl, it helped me on my journey a lot. Good luck!

well_imaguy_sooo_ · 2019-06-25T17:31:02+00:00

Sounds like it's time to learn escalation. There are loads of videos on eye contact, platonic touching, and mildly sexual touching that can charge the interaction with sexual tension. You'll have to get good at reading her body language to make sure you are not crossing any uncomfortable boundaries.

Be super respectful with it and try not to go into it with the mentality that it is only you who is being judged/examined. Have standards of your own, and only go after those who meet them.

vvvrath12 · 2019-06-25T21:26:18+00:00

Man I'm the complete opposite of you. How you get good at conversation?

_d3nnis_ · 2019-06-25T21:38:17+00:00

Keep approaching this time inspire emotions

2019-06-25T22:38:02+00:00

I think after you talk to them, you have to have it in your mind that you both are sexual beings. Attraction is the number one important element to get laid. And its mostly only good for getting laid too. So when you're talking to them, take a breath and remember that you both are sexual beings. And then when the timing is right the conversation will escalate there.

Title	Can talk to girls without any problem but I feel like I'm not able to attract them.
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Date	June 25, 2019 12:28 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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