Met up with this girl once for a quick 'get to know' at a local burger joint. Nothing really went down, she's cool, totally into me, yadda yadda. Ended up going back to her place, laying together, watching a movie, making out. She's 22, I'm 27.

Second meetup, she brings up in random conversation after I joked about 50 Shades of Grey something very close to "Yeah, Shades was good. Actually it was the reason for my last relationship."... at which I just passed over kinda stunned, but it really stuck out. I didn't feel it was time to throw out all our kinks in the wide open driving in the car the second time we met up.

So far, this girl seems REALLY submissive. She won't initiate anything. Literally, nothing. Half the time when I'm escalating, I can't even tell if it's an "all go" type of situation. Very hard to read. She has texted me many things like "I really like you".. and "So you don't have a girlfriend or anything?"

Safe to assume at this point she's probably into that stuff? Or at least I need to just man up and escalate more. I haven't been because when we first started talking she gave me the BS that "All guys just seem to be into the sex thing" quote.

Advice?