I’ve always seen reddit as a good place to vent/get advice so here goes. So I am a 27 year old male that just moved to the city of Chicago from my parents house in the burbs. I was socially awkward up until say age 22. Since then I’ve done good for myself socially. I lift weights, groom myself well ect. Girls love to hang out with me because they think I’m fun or funny, but I never get luck with getting laid. A couple times where I was close I ended up getting coke/whisky dick. I’m currently friends with a good amount of hot girls, and a couple weeks ago I went down to indiana university with a group of friends and almost got with this girl (I knew she wanted the d) but it didn’t end up happening because we went to this bar and all of a sudden hooked up with this guy she met there. The next day she specifically said “when are we gonna fuck in the bathroom”. I kind of got cold feet about it and we had to leave back to Chicago. I got cold feet because I was afraid of getting ED again. It affects me pretty bad when my friends get with these girls and I don’t. I haven’t always been the best at being forward but moving out of my parents house did give me a bit of a confidence boost. I’m just depressed because I’m this old and haven’t had a real sexual experience