So I asked a girl out, she said yes. The problem is, we have casually gone out and she always tells me she likes to take this slow. She doesn’t want to hold hands until we have gone out on a few dates, doesn’t want to kiss unless we are committed and doesn’t want to have sex unless it’s in a relationship. She told me she doesn’t even want to hug until we have gone on a few dates; yet, she expect to “feel a spark” out our first date? How can I make her feel such a thing if I can’t touch her, and what exactly does that even mean?