I'm [20] going on a date with an older woman [44] this Thursday for the first time. What are some differences between dating older women compared to younger women?

GeckoVanderwahl · 2019-10-08T11:46:21+00:00

You aren't going to have to work that hard

ABitterPanacea · 2019-10-08T14:06:42+00:00

She already decided to bang you; don't mess it up.

Don't mention anything in regards to kids/family/past history unless she brings it up to converse.

Don't act intimidated, but don't over compensate.

Don't be afraid to establish kino very early (a nice strong and firm hug with some squeezing at the waist and a kiss) . Expect the date to be short with around 2-3 drinks and some small apps before getting finally to the point of getting out of there to bang.

Don't ask to go back to hers, I'd reccomend a hotel room.

gl;hf

-Man who had plenty of encounters with older women.

Also women in their 40s are actually at their sexual prime, so have fun.

axe122 · 2019-10-08T13:03:46+00:00

I think you just don’t bring up the age difference and make it like it’s no big deal if she does. You don’t want her to snap outa the thrill and fun she’s having and be thinking I’m about to fuck a kid(even though your not) she graduated college before you were born lol Also don’t bring up a relationship or do or say anything that conveys you want one. Let her come to you with all that.

1959Chicagoan · 2019-10-08T12:03:23+00:00

Make sure she trims that tumbleweed.

Ducimus88 · 2019-10-08T13:26:33+00:00

more experience.. u are in for a treat

11ten · 2019-10-21T04:50:41+00:00

I think it’s humorous to read how many of you think us 40+ women aren’t having sex often. We have sex guys, lol. Regardless, I am woman (48) dating a woman (23) for the past 4 months. The biggest differences are that I am established in life and she is paving her way. Her skin is flawless and mine is, eh, it’s alright - I am aging well. People (strangers) question our relationship dynamic all the time. Lastly and the biggest is Time. She will blow up my phone text, FaceTime, phone calls - I have not let her on my social media (yes, I’m slightly embarrassed to be dating a 23yr old) - she needs to let me work!

mysecret_alt · 2019-10-08T12:38:02+00:00

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2019-10-08T13:47:39+00:00

Dont be scared to compliment..... in her maturity, more than likely shell actually be able to take one, instead of just shyly shutting down.....

CryptoniQ123 · 2019-10-08T13:50:54+00:00

If she's already going out on a date with you, she probably hasnt had sex in a long time. She will probably be very easy to flirt with, and she will build your ego up. Play into it, run with it, tease her a little about the age gap, etc. This one is yours to mess up...just don't say anything stupid, and you'll probably end up with her in the sac.

ICYSHARE04 · 2019-10-08T12:04:42+00:00

Good luck 🤞

UneAmi · 2019-10-08T15:44:03+00:00

Don’t compare to your mom or aunt. Don’t compare her to Any old women you know

theOdinska · 2019-10-08T19:15:19+00:00

Nothing except better sex.

NYCMusicMarathon · 2019-10-09T18:53:50+00:00

We're going to a local bar.

Then you are going to say,

"We should have sex today, soon."

"Would you like me to provide a hotel room or go back to your place?"

dirttaylor · 2019-10-08T16:25:33+00:00

More sophisticated, experienced, confident, worldly, and mature. Avoid acting like a douche and things will be fine.

broteinbowder · 2019-10-09T02:33:42+00:00

Did this recently. I'm 23, slept with a 43 year old. For me, literally no difference, we just chatted and I got to know her. Eventually it led to sex. Maybe older women are more comfortable with these things, so it's great.

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