3 Biggest Text Game Myths/Lies

axe122 · 2019-10-17T05:11:17+00:00

Text game is all about balance, if you meet a girl online especially I attract build comfort and start sexually escalating before the first date(sometimes it’s about making out you it’s her, sometimes it sparking her and sometimes it’s a full out sex discussion really depends on the girl). You have to build comfort or they won’t meet a stranger. I do think the goal is to get texting down to a minimum but in the beginning you gotta text especially if she’s texting you first. With texting if your not in a back and forth text conversation you are not building comfort(or it’s so slow it’s barley working) The key is to match her timing so if she’s spending 20min between texts you match this for maybe 3-5 messages then be the leader and every 3-5 swnd a text right away if she (they are often matching your time as well so you have to be the leader and every now and then break the time loop) She’ll usually Match your new text time since she sees it as okay to freely exchange text but if she doesn’t and continues to wait 20 min you go back to 20 min then instead of trying to get her to text right away try waiting 3-5 messages and try cutting the time in half so now it’s 10 min if she matched that get her down to 5 then to back and forth. You have to lead the interaction cuz they are often matching your time as well is why every 3-5 texts you break the time pattern yous are following and try and get her to match your new time When you are freely texting back and forth is when it’s like a conversation and you can build comfort and sexually escalate but don’t just talk about sex. Start with lips boobs (not tits) or her butt and make it playful then if she bites on that text and seems responsive you can back up go back to comfort and then take it a little further after a few texts. (I’ve had girls tell me all kinds of crazy shit they like) Once you’ve slept with a girl I think you wanna get texting down to a bare minimum unless she’s texting you then it’s okay but if your the one reaching out (chasing her for attention) she will lose interest it might be 9 months from now but she’ll eventually get bored. Have you ever seen your sister, cousin, or friend getting texts from their boyfriend while they are out and have this annoyed face like (fuck I gotta answer him again I hope he finds something to do) do you wanna be this guy? cuz I don’t lol So in the very very beginning text yes but even then don’t get carried away you gotta kinda bait her into wanting to see you and then real the line back cuz if she doesn’t have to do anything for your attention then she won’t and you’ll be her text buddy who if she’s bored enough might grace with her presence. It’s all about a fine balance.

caesarfecit · 2019-10-17T06:23:20+00:00

You're not wrong OP in that you can do those things with text game, but they take skill, practice, and experience.

In my experience, the best medium by far to attract a woman is in person, followed by voice, then text if you don't have a better option.

Which means texting should ultimately be about setting up dates, but you don't have be to quite so laser focused on it.

The trick I've found is getting to the hook point in a text convo. This happens when she's chasing you rather than the other way around. When she's chasing you, it's easy to control the flow and depth of the conversation. When it's the other way around, your options are more limited.

The other trick is saying as much as possible with as few words as possible. This is what keeps you from appearing tryhard or boring her. Keep it short, sweet, and punchy. Hint, but don't show.

And the last trick is to be disciplined. Girls will play all kinds of games over text. They'll text you at 4 am. They'll take days to respond. They start bombarding you out of nowhere. They'll act offended to something and not respond, just to see if they can troll you into double texting. Discipline is what allows you to rise above and stay on your purpose.

devbev · 2019-10-17T11:14:57+00:00

Pretty good tips.

For others reading - wherever you are in your journey of learning all this stuff, you'll want to develop an intuitive sense of what's right for the situation.

At the core of getting your dating life the way you want it, is personal growth.

For example, just getting really good with women involves developing a whole new set of skills and senses, learning how to use deep empathy, etc.

Put simply, the way you can be your best with women is to reach a point where you truly understand them (as much as a man could, I guess) and learn how to communicate with them effectively based on that.

This takes work, but it's worth it in my opinion.

volchonok1 · 2019-10-17T06:10:09+00:00

sexualize over text

How do you do that through text without sounding like a perv? Everything I can think sounds cringy/creepy without seeing her in person.

SithLordJediMaster · 2019-10-17T03:57:43+00:00

"Texting is the epitome of illiteracy. Typing C U LTR instead of "See you later." We're back to the ancient times. Back to hieraglyphs using emojis. We went backwards as a species."-Neil DeGrasse Tyson

Title	3 Biggest Text Game Myths/Lies
Author	finchfry157
Upvotes	14
Comments	12
Date	October 17, 2019 3:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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