I used to get shit tests all the time. Plenty of last minute resistance. Girls making me feel uncertain in the process of seduction. But the longer I do this, the less women jerk me around. The last time a girl gave me LMR was maybe two years ago. What changed?
I became very consistent in how I present myself as a man. I'm confident in what I know I have to offer. They don't have to guess if I'm a good lover, a smooth talker, if they can feel safe around me, if I have good conversation, if I'm a well rounded, dynamic man, if I'm socially savvy.
Through my VIBE and conversation they will know everything critically important about me to make a decision about me. I don't care what they want or if they leave so I don't switch up my behavior. I never think of what to say. I don't think of what to do next. I'm always attuned to what she wants because I've seen it in many other women. I know what they want and have to give it to them. And more importantly I know what I want and how far I'm willing to go to get what I want. Having high standards voids you being tested.
Things that could be considered tests, I don't consider them to be tests. Because I won't change my behavior, I don't switch up, I don't care, I don't compromise or acquiesce, they know what it is. I establish boundaries very clearly. If they try to change it, they're gone. I don't feel the need to qualify myself or chase, so there can be no test passing.
I just am. I am unmoved. I am firmly rooted.
Because I'm grounded, it forces women to make a choice. "I can't fuck with him so I have to either shit or get off the pot." Girls don't give me last minute resistance. They either say yes or no because I only give that option based on my behavior. We don't get to my bed and now they're uncertain. They don't go out with me and flirt with other guys to see how I'll react.
They know way before hand what I'm about so they don't waste their time fucking around playing games. I refuse games and weed out bad behavior far before my dick is hard or I decide I actually MIGHT like them.
This is what it means to really seduce a woman.
Being so consistent, confident, grounded, and clear in your knowledge and abilities that she doesn't have a choice but to accept you or move on. I seduced her with my masculine polarity, not a series of techniques or steps. No more asking does she want me or not b/c she made whatever move. Just do what I do until she gets sucked in or moves on.
Masculine polarity is like a black hole. Firmly rooted. Dark. Beautiful to look at. But . . . You know that if you get too close you will have no choice but to submit to it and go into the void or you stay away altogether. You don't fuck around and test a black hole. It is respected for what it is. You have to deal with it on it's terms.
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