So I had a first date a couple months back where we went out to a bar and drank heavily and it didn’t go as well as I thought. I think this is because I was just barely getting to know the girl. Now I’m talking to a girl I met at a music show and I’m wondering if coffee dates are the way to go for first dates. Seems like a good hour to get to know someone and see if we can get to the next level. How do you guys treat coffee dates? Any coffee date tips?