For those who read the book Models.

manonpoint_com · 2020-07-08T04:50:07+00:00

I mean, that is just an example, but to your specific point, yes, living with your parents as an adult will hurt your chances with women. The older you are, the more it will hurt.

hughonvicodin · 2020-07-08T04:48:27+00:00

The situation that you're talking about is a common one in my country. What I believe is that just like you appreciate living with your parents, some girl might do that too and won't mind this whole situation. But you'll get to meet her only if you keep trying.

Don't take these rejections to heart.. just think of it as a frequency mismatch and move on.

P.S. - Please ignore the above response if you're not looking for a serious/long-term relationship.

Underwood97 · 2020-07-08T08:24:53+00:00

If you think its fine fo live with your parents, the girl will too. All that matters is perception.

I think the guys mentioned in the book are very conscious of the fact that they live with their parents. Thats why this translates into their day to day communication with women.

earsurgery9 · 2020-07-08T08:50:56+00:00

it's not a big deal, tbh.

Me and my brothers both brought young girls back to our parents house when we were in our late 20's (rent is expensive as hell around here. England). Girls don't really care. ESPECIALLY in the moment!!

Thebussinessman · 2020-07-08T09:24:51+00:00

It might hurt your chances with women, but it really depends on where you live. In some countries it is normal not to movd out before you have a stable job.

scarrax · 2020-07-08T13:44:15+00:00

It depends heavily on where you live, especially in today’s day and age. Manson’s merely speaking from his own experiences growing up in the United States, where in many places cost of living is low and it’s the norm for people to move out in their early 20s. And even then that’s probably from a decade or so ago.

Where I live it’s pretty common for people my age to still be living with their parents well into their 20s or even 30s. Many friends are still at home for financial reasons (I.e. paying student debt, saving to buy instead of rent, helping their families out financially), their parents live close to work, etc. If girls only want guys who don’t live with their parents then they would have a comparably small selection.

relentless_pma · 2020-07-08T08:48:16+00:00

How old are you? My answer will depend on your age

lonelywolf6 · 2020-07-08T07:20:20+00:00

You don't have to do anything homie. But the rest of us hopped out of our nest because the greater world called to us. We want independence. We want to run with pack, to call the shots, to have our one place. We have a hunger for life that you just don't.

Novatonavila · 2020-07-08T03:32:33+00:00

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kamikazes9x · 2020-07-08T04:59:42+00:00

It more of a logistic problem. I mean it kind of hard to have sex when your parent is around. Another reason is that is make the relation ship become more serious. Seeing your partner parent is a big deal. Nobody like being judge by older people.

Fantastic-Golf-4612 · 2020-07-08T15:06:18+00:00

I live with my parents as well and for logistics it's awful, I've wanted to live alone for years, not just for girls but unfortunately here it's expensive and even if my pay it's pretty good for my age living alone while possible would be a financial suicide.

It really depends on the context of your country, here living with your parents is not looked down but it definitely plays against you.

However I set a deadline, no matter what when I reach 26 I'm gonna get out of this house with our without money.

Xazax310 · 2020-07-08T17:08:57+00:00

This depends on culture. Here in America, if your a 25 + year old dude living with his parents (and your not going to Doctor/Lawyer school) then yes it's seen a negative. Women want to see that you're independent, responsible, and a functional adult.

Living with your parents can be seen as that your not mature, functional, still living with "mommy and daddy" girls don't want to date a boy they want a man.

Not to mention it's kind of hard to get sexy time on the couch or even in your room... with your parents around.

Dieg0bs · 2020-07-08T18:59:48+00:00

I think your reaction says it all bro, if that observation made you so much noise, it means that unconsciously it does mean a problem for you

kalz44 · 2020-07-10T17:46:49+00:00

This is an illustration of a man who doesn't invest in themselves. It doesn't mean that you can't live with your parents but it does mean that if you do live with your parents, you need to be actively working to get out of that situation (feasibly).

Gautamnegi2802 · 2020-07-08T07:54:10+00:00

The women really sees how independent you are. If something happens tomorrow, are you independent enough to stand on your own feet and survive?

STD_Tyler · 2020-07-08T11:01:54+00:00

You can fuck attractive women while living with your parents. But for them to date you long term, it is a much different story. Once they know your poor or mediocre lifestyle they will dump you, because they simply have tons of other options (think of 1000 tinder matches).

Title	For those who read the book Models.
Author	Novatonavila
Upvotes	9
Comments	35
Date	July 8, 2020 2:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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