Men,

There are certain things you can do to be instantly more attractive besides the obvious (taking care of your looks). These are just a couple of things you can start doing today to be more attractive.

Smile - This is super basic and a few still miss it. Think about how you're coming across if you don't smile. What if a girl talked to you without smiling? You would make all kinds of assumptions about her. Smiling has been proven to make you more attractive. So, smile when you first greet anyone. Make it a habit.

Don't complicate how to start a conversation. I know i used to think about a perfect way to start a conversation with girls. Fact is, there is NONE. a Hi will do. Realize it's the whole interaction that matters, not how you start it. Don't worry about pick up lines. Worry about how you are feeling. Are you judging yourself if you're nervous? Or if you're feeling scared? Then, make those feelings normal so that your vibe will be dope. If you tell yourself being nervous is bad and you should not be feeling nervous, then it will only get worse. If you tell yourself it is normal, your vibe will be much better.

Stop checking girls out like a creep. This is something that MANY guys do and it is usually because they think...oh, i can't have this girl. So, i should just not even try and just check her out because that is all i can get. Checking the girl's ass out and all that crap is NOT a great first impression. I know most guys do this but most guys do not get lots of dates. I could write more about why this is not a good idea but think about it yourself.

Lead the interaction. When you first talk to a girl, realize you are a stranger. You got to lead the conversation. She is still wondering if you're cool or if you're crazy or something else. If she likes you, she might be thinking about if her hair or make up is alright. Point is, introduce new topics. Be a little random and spontaneous. Improvise. Also, move the interaction forward if she likes you. Lots of guys don't ask the girl out after a good interaction. They don't ask the girl to come to salsa or cooking class or get their # or get their snap or insta. Some guys want to walk away and say to themselves...hey that girl liked me and prefer not to take a chance asking the girl for her # or insta or join them to come to a class or something.

Have standards besides looks. When you talk to a girl, have 3 things that you look for in a girl that are not related to looks. whatever is important to YOU. Is she family oriented? is she adventurous? is she funny/fun? whatever you look for. Screen the girl for them. This way, you won't be the guy that is just trying to make the girl like him. You will be seeing if the girl meets your standards as well.

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I go over a couple more in my new video. Took a bit of effort to edit it. Tried to make it engaging. check it out if you're interested.

Peace!

Link: https://youtu.be/pPZAV4TWANU