Is this unhealthy?

Whisper · 2015-06-12T23:51:28+00:00

Are you sad when you look at it?

Or are you angry?

Be angry. Let the hate flow through you. Let it fill you up. Let it make you strong. Carry it with you like a weapon against your own weakness.

And one day, you will look at that picture and discover that you no longer give a fuck.

vfree · Fri Jun 12 22:48:17 2015 UTC

Yes. Because it keeps you stuck on her. Move on. Block her on your phone, social media, etc. Delete all your pics together. Delete all your texts with her. Move on. Then whatever you do, do for yourself and no one else.

abdada · 2015-06-13T00:00:47+00:00

Share the photo, I haven't been mad at a woman in 23 years. I need a little motivation to hit my new PRs on bench. I'll blow it up poster size and mount it on my ceiling.

dmystery · 2015-06-12T23:48:55+00:00

It's a crazy temptation isn't it? I was in the same situation too just over a year ago. The best thing to do as /u/vfree said is to stop.

RedPill isn't about doing things for women, it's about doing things for you.

Lift, study, read, diet, get in shape for you not some dumb bimbo that gave your penis the tingles. Women come women go. Abundance mentality.

Your life is finite. You sound young. You're in the prime of your life. Do something with these precious years.

Enzuq · 2015-06-13T00:02:10+00:00

but she was my first

First love, is the best and the worst. haha

Also, whenever you need a reminder of why you should keep going , is to look at the girl you have lost to higher SMV male.

I think both /u/vfree and /u/Whisper are right.

If you're sad and feeling like you stuck, stop that shit.

If you're angry and it helps to motivate keep going.

SkorchZang · 2015-06-13T02:45:30+00:00

I think you're full of shit dude, and you know it.

You look at their pic on facebook because you feel those surges of self-pity from it. I'd do the same exact thing, in cycles over years, with each new ex! it's incredibly tempting.

But it's also unmasculine and shameful to allow yourself to wallow in that shallow self pity. As if you got nothing better to do but "feel bad" like a little bitch.

When you decide you're done feeling that way, like "the world done you wrong", and want to focus properly... that habit of looking up the ex's pics needs to go.

Title	Is this unhealthy?
Author	giffengoods
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	June 12, 2015 10:16 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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