I'm gonna go for it tomorrow, and I'm not looking back

JeanMeti_ore · 2020-10-06T02:08:33+00:00

Don't wait, bro. Girls are like that one last piece of nacho cheese at the bottom of the plate. If you don't take it, someone else will.

ewelumokeke · 2020-10-06T04:51:32+00:00

Good luck, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take

yurifca · 2020-10-06T14:16:45+00:00

To everyone here that needs to listen to this:

STOP WASTING YOUR FUCKING TIME.

A "no" is 100000x times better than not doing shit, stop wasting youth and money doubting yourself. Take the fucking risks, quit your excuses

copperdog626 · 2020-10-06T12:38:52+00:00

Don’t go to that same gas station 3x in one day though. She thought I was cute the first time and weird the second and creepy the third. Just gotta pounce the first time

vishalllllll · 2020-10-06T05:22:49+00:00

Go get it op, I was planning on too on a cute chick at gym if not today it's tommorow..

2020-10-06T03:20:22+00:00

Shoot your shot. But know that even if you don't get the number, life is a numbers game. The important part is the fact that you KEEP trying (with different people each time).

InFBI · 2020-10-06T01:29:31+00:00

Update me bro this shit be motivating lmao and u have someone to share ur blessings to.

somethinlikeshieva · 2020-10-06T20:34:19+00:00

saw a couple girls i wanted to talk to, i was with my mom so it was awkward. next time im out, its a wrap

uberhombre22 · 2020-10-06T12:54:10+00:00

There is never a right time. Just roll with the punches and do it.

itsameaross · 2020-10-06T16:06:50+00:00

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Snoo_71379 · 2020-10-06T23:05:17+00:00

Good luck, man.

mystikalmix · 2020-10-07T00:47:32+00:00

When you do it...if she doesn't say yes...youre gonna realize that its not even that bad lol. If she does say yes, well....thats a whole nother battle because now you're gonna have to try to make her not lose interest.

sparks_to_flames · 2020-10-07T02:29:50+00:00

I've saved this post, rooting for you and waiting for the update

someonewithacat · 2020-10-08T09:16:08+00:00

How come she didn't show up? I'm really sorry man :(

2020-10-06T02:06:12+00:00

Good luck

SmartPuppyy · 2020-10-06T05:31:49+00:00

You can do this.

Loxong · 2020-10-06T13:02:04+00:00

Yo I'm gonna do it tomorrow too are you me ?

gigolobob · 2020-10-06T07:58:24+00:00

Words are cheap. How many ppl want to bet he chickens out?

benerdelyi · 2020-10-06T07:35:08+00:00

Go for it!

2020-10-06T20:10:28+00:00

So wha happan

theforgeproject · 2020-10-06T14:14:32+00:00

This is from a reply of mine from another post. I thought the info would be of use to you

I know you’re young but you are putting way to much importance on women and your feelings. It’s good you are challenging your fears but don’t go thinking that will create the desired outcome. It likely won’t but that shouldn’t matter anyway.

You are in a mental prison and conditioning of wanting approval. A key aspect to getting what you want from women is actually caring less and not giving a shit what these women think of you. Having an awareness of what you think they are thinking is holding you back. You want them to approve of you, give you choosing signals so you know it’s safe, and then you’ll “make your move” to see if you can get what you want with as little pain or embarrassment as possible. Fuck that. Get in there and do what you want.

Not being able to say what you want and being uncomfortable with talking about sexual topics implies that you have a disconnect with your sexual nature. You’ve operated in a conditioned socially acceptable mode of deescalated masculinity that now you have an inability to act on your natural male impulses to go after what you want. Believing there is a “state” from which to operate implies there is an on and an off. When you have a good relationship with your sexual self, you are the state. It’s not something you switch into like an outfit.

Understand that at first you will fail. Understand that by being direct you will lose these so-called friends. Understand that you have work to do in the realm of chipping off the crud you’ve been conditioned with that makes you a careful, obedient male.

The work you have to do is first not caring what other people think of you. This caring comes from childhood experiences. You must examine your past because to know where you want to go you must have a very clear idea of where you are and how you got there. It’s likely something to do with mom. We’re you raised without a father? This is common in males that were either raised without a dad or if they did have a dad, he was a wet towel “yes dear”.

No learned seduction skills will help you now bc the skills and tricks won’t change who you are- which is what your problem really is. I could teach you every trick in the book about motorcycle racing but if you don’t know first how to ride it will do you no good. Same thing with women.

The goal is to be comfortable with yourself. This comes down to developing a relationship with your sexual nature and your sense of competition and your killer instinct. A jaguar doesn’t look at a zebra and think “maybe it’ll be easier to drag it up into a tree and eat it if I become friends first”. Jaguars don’t deal in deception. You don’t want a buddy. You want to fuck. More than that, you want her to want to fuck you.

This comes from being unapologetically your authentic self. If she likes it fine. If she doesn’t fine. Who cares. Being this way allows a guy to walk up to an interest, introduce himself and tell her you’re interested in getting to know her in a more intimate way. Saying “intimate” is integral to this interaction. It makes it crystal clear as to why you are taking to her. When a guy is indirect and say “hey let’s hang out”. What does that mean? It’s very ambiguous and adds confusion to the woman’s perceptions of you. Be clear and concise with your thoughts, words and actions. This is called being congruent.

Living congruently is difficult at first. It flies in the face of all that you’ve been conditioned with at birth. But once you get living this way you’ll see how liberating it is to operate from your own chessboard. It simplifies everything. It doesn’t guarantee success anywhere but it’s healthier to live this way bc you’ll be less emotional about the “failures” and the successes will be genuine desire. It prevents any ambiguity and turns situations into a yes or a no for the most part.

someonewithacat · 2020-10-06T09:15:02+00:00

Remind me in 2 days

alexdiezg · 2020-10-06T12:47:33+00:00

!RemindMe 24h

slowpoketail · 2020-10-06T12:59:06+00:00

Just do it bro, even if she says she's not interested you can say you tried, and if she is, well you did it! High risk high reward.

ItsAXE93 · 2020-10-06T13:07:24+00:00

All the best yo !! Just try to rectify any unwanted situation while asking ..

InsaneKing1 · 2020-10-06T14:29:36+00:00

YOU CAN DO IT!

Aezzil · 2020-10-06T14:32:30+00:00

Remind me in 1 day

kbasoon · 2020-10-06T15:15:53+00:00

Broo you can do it and here's a tip if she offers you her e-mail address I will probably say don't take it and turn it into a joke like, "okay it will be fun having a conversation with you while Sundar Pichai creeps upon us"

Try it tell me what happens 😂

Dustyyyy_7 · 2020-10-06T15:47:31+00:00

Remind me in 2 days

dawidwojcik141 · 2020-10-06T16:56:07+00:00

!remindme 1 day

Title	I'm gonna go for it tomorrow, and I'm not looking back
Author	itsameaross
Upvotes	263
Comments	65
Date	October 6, 2020 1:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/j5w7up/im_gonna_go_for_it_tomorrow_and_im_not_looking/
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