Men,

Just wanted to share a quick tip that helped me a lot when it comes to getting out of my head. I've never been the cool person. You know? I've been the guy quiet in groups...the guy that struggled talking to girls and people in general.

One of the things that bothered me when talking to people was all the crap i worried about while talking to people. I was in my head. One of the things that helped me take care of my problem was changing my focus. I started focusing on the OTHER person instead of worrying about myself. I became curious about the other person. I realized curiosity is powerful. So, i genuinely wanted to learn more about the person. I also started focusing on how i am making the other person feel instead of focusing on how i am feeling. The overall focus became...FUN...me and the person i'm talking...are we having fun?

Doing this dramatically improved my conversation skills. I made a very short video on this tip as well as two others. Link below.

Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fLoU7Vbia_o

That's my new channel.

If you don't get many matches online and are feeling down, i have a vid on my old channel where i go approach girls in person and see if i can get more dates. Link: https://youtu.be/evgG61wL1Es

Remember, you don't have to be perfect to attract girls. Girls want to meet you. Just improve conversation skills a bit but don't wait until you are perfect. You or the girl will NEVER be perfect. No one needs to be perfect. Anyways,

Peace!