Strategies in becoming a secured high valued man

ConsiderationSea1347 · 2024-03-24T19:57:31+00:00

The best thing you can do to “be a high value man,” is stop thinking about people as high or low value. Introspect. Learn what you love. Chase that. Ironically, you become “high value” by giving up on playing the high or low value game and follow your passions.

MeanestNiceLady · 2024-03-24T23:08:45+00:00

Why do you want women to see you as high value?

TrilIias · 2024-03-25T00:27:32+00:00

The idea of a "high value man" is very much from the pickup artist community, not the men's rights movement. You don't want to hear "don't worry about it?" Well then you came to the wrong place. Part of what we advocate is that men shouldn't have to elevate themselves to be valued for their inherent humanity, that men are people who deserve a base level of dignity, that men should not be deemed to be disposable simply because of their gender, as so regularly occurs.

"But I'm not talking about male disposability, I'm talking about dating," I hear you say. Fine, but the men's rights movement isn't about dating. As the name might suggest, it's about men's rights. Things like conscription or non-consensual circumcision. Your dating prospects by comparison just seem like a minor you-problem.

You're barking up the wrong tree. It's like asking atheists how to become a high value man. The atheists might say "Well through Evolution men have adapted to be physically stronger, and due that being a key sexually dimorphic trait it would be of benefit to emphasize that to maximize your sexual appeal, so hit the gym or something." But you might imagine why a community of atheists might be annoyed by your question, it's only tangentially related to the matter of atheism.

Asamiya1978 · 2024-03-24T21:46:51+00:00

"High valued" by whom? I try to keep track of who I am to feel balanced rather than expecting to be valued by others. The later makes you an easy prey of narcissists and other abusers.

If you are yourself, there are going always to be some people who won't value you or even hate or despise you. That is something that can't be avoided.

As Phillip Deere said: there is no failure in this life until you try to be what you are not.

Another important advice. Forget about "the alpha male" concept. That is a myth. There are neither "alpha males" nor "beta males".

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-03-24T21:22:57+00:00

Do what you want to do. Not in the sense of being hedonistic, rather in the sense of obeying your internal moral compass, as opposed to obeying what people tell you is right. Same thing for education and jobs, follow the career that you enjoy doing, don't focus on the money or the latest hot job. Women? Same thing. Do what you want to do.

UNR2 · 2024-03-24T23:12:59+00:00

I heard that women look for the three sixes; six figure income, over six feet tall, and over six inches. I’m 2/3rds the way there.

mhk23 · 2024-03-25T01:25:09+00:00

https://youtu.be/xI1g3wnaLGk?feature=shared

https://www.youtube.com/live/CWbvnrcMtWY?feature=shared

mhk23 · 2024-03-25T01:28:04+00:00

Across time and location, masculinity has consisted of strength, honor, courage and mastery. Masculinity is integrity under pressure.

Prior to striving to be high value, build and understand what is masculinity. The videos I posted before will clarify further.

AlfalfaSpecialist972 · 2024-03-25T21:26:52+00:00

Strategies to become a most wanted slave… no, thank you

corporate_robot_dude · 2024-03-24T19:32:02+00:00

I know people focus on the 6's...but it really isn't just one thing. I also think that although certain qualities can be learned, it's still very hard to change who you inherently are as a person or how you behave. eg. if you're ugly, short, and balding...then all the odds are against you and no matter how much social elegance you have, you're still going to attract the same negative energy from others. Whereas someone born rich and with good looks, will naturally continue to attract good energy into their lives further giving them more confidence and so on.

I would say appearances are the lowest hanging fruit and the easiest to improve on (to a certain extent). But ultimately we do have to be realistic with ourselves and there's only so much you can do for faking it until you make it.

Spins13 · 2024-03-24T19:44:16+00:00

Confidence is the most important, then looks, then status, then competence.

You can fake confidence until you get it. You cannot do much about your looks. You can build your status and competence little by little (but most men already do this).

A lot of men underestimate confidence and the power it holds, even though it is the easiest to acquire

Title	Strategies in becoming a secured high valued man
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