From now on, if I like a girl, I'll ask her out/ask for her number.

floracalendula · 2024-04-01T21:17:07+00:00

Yessss! We love a king who decides to be people! <3 If she acts mean about it, she wasn't worth your time to begin with and you dodged a bullet.

TarTarkus1 · 2024-04-01T23:42:21+00:00

So from now on, I'll fix myself up, look and smell presentable and be charming and charismatic. When that's all done, I'll just ask out any girl that I like, without worrying she says no or not. Any additional advice is welcome.

In my experience, women tend to be much more selective when it comes to what they're into. One might like you, the others won't at all.

Of course what complicates this from the male perspective is you're not really going to truly know unless you go up, start a conversation and make your intention clear to her.

As in, you can simply tell her you think she's cute and you wanted to introduce yourself.

You always risk rejection but dare i say on this subreddit given rule #5, this truth is the true red pill.

No politics, cults, etc.

NurseShay87 · 2024-04-02T01:44:12+00:00

Oh please do! You'd be so surprised at how many women will accept & actually be interested! YOU are standing in your OWN WAY. Women don't mind respectful and courteous men who are not trying to take them on Netflix and chill dates and house dates.

xvszero · 2024-04-01T20:11:13+00:00

Are you actually short or average? I notice a lot of guys who buy into red pill think they're short if they're not like 6'0 or taller.

Regardless, it's not your job to walk around on eggshells over things you can't control. Ask women out, some will be happy, some might not be, either way you did nothing wrong.

LiuoTT · 2024-04-03T21:00:39+00:00

So even if she says no, she'll still feel good about herself and you're relationship with her is still good.

I assume you're not talking about harassing strangers minding their own business on the street, but about inviting people you've already met. I still disagree.

It's kind of nice to feel wanted by men, but that kind of conversation tends to be awful or even scary. I've got no idea how a guy asking me out may take rejection. He may be aggressive or not respect my decision. It also feels bad to hurt somebody's feelings. Especially after years of upbringing to be agreeable. The next thing i will think about is whether i can escape the situation. I know you may not be that person, but I guarantee most women have this internal dialogue at least once in their lifes. Some way too often.

(Whether it will be the same after the refusal depends on the person. Some people feel awkward and need time.)

So when it comes to advice, try to let the other person know that saying 'no' is no big deal. It would be good if she knew that she could escape the situation after the conversation. As an example, you could say that you are going somewhere and if she wants to go with you. Then she'll know you're going there anyway, regardless of her decision. Why is it important? Personally, it's easier for me to give someone a chance when I'm not afraid for my own safety. Besides, it's nice to be a cool person :)

Polish_Girlz · 2024-04-05T14:36:30+00:00

That's really good! 👌👏

Title	From now on, if I like a girl, I'll ask her out/ask for her number.
Author	ViceNote
Upvotes	35
Comments	23
Date	April 1, 2024 7:52 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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