Wife has fantasies about causing husband emotional pain

Chama-HUH · 2024-04-07T05:41:55+00:00

Marriage is just emasculating. For the comments that support her; people baby women, they can do no wrong, loyalty and morals is something that is not held to women in the degree it’s held to men. It’s interesting to see that everyone is trying to be understanding because they are scared to hurt another feelings so they rid adults (women especially) of any wrong doings and validate their behaviours by saying it’s normal, it’s disrespectful to me because they are treating grown adults like children.

Men need to respect themselves more, we see it with the self depreciating comments, we see it in the way the throw themselves under the bus to appease a women or how they believe they are always in the wrong because they are a man.

toblotron · 2024-04-07T06:03:02+00:00

Sounds like a power-trip, plain and simple, from someone who doesn't have anything better going on in their lives than tormenting someone who loves them

TristanAurelius · 2024-04-07T07:15:54+00:00

I wonder if she has narcissistic or antisocial personality disorder (sociopathy). This could be purely sexual/Freudian but it sounds like what sociopaths on YouTube describe.

Dormeo69 · 2024-04-07T07:27:02+00:00

After all, that post is from the adultery sub... what did you expect?

People tend to forget that we live in a world where both men and women can have mental and personality disorders.

No, it's not only men who can have ASPD, NPD, BPD, etc.

Also, women can be narcissists, psychopaths and whatnot.

With that in mind, the people who happen to have such issues are obviously known to lie, manipulate, steal, cheat, etc.

Men have 20x times more testosterone than women.

Thus, they are more likely to commit violent acts that include physical implications.

To put it simply, a man will kill a person and will be sent to jail, case solved. (We're not talking about the corporate snakes or politicians here, although you can easily spot those too if you pay attention)

On the other hand, women intrinsically know that they are less stronger than men.

Therefore, they employ other tactics.

Some of these tactis are shaming, lying, manipulation, smear campaigns, cheating, which means that they can also falsely accuse you of sexual assault, destroy your whole life in a divorce, crush you to pieces with no remorse, and so on.

Add to that the fact that women are generally not held accountable for their bad behavior and actions, which will transform society into a playground for lunatics.

A playground where you'll be the victim and no one cares if you live or die since you're disposable anyway as a man.

mr_ogyny · 2024-04-07T10:09:46+00:00

She is an abusive narcissist.

She wants to be desirable to him even though she does not desire him. It's not clear without more details but she probably settled for reasons other than attraction.

A_Fallatah · 2024-04-07T16:56:33+00:00

Wtf is that ? How even someone recognised as a human doing that this is sick

I hope she leaves the poor guy and goes out with an abuser

CodeWhileHigh · 2024-04-07T13:13:35+00:00

Jesus I hate women like you

Practical_Ad3342 · 2024-04-07T14:40:25+00:00

Whether or not you're religious or not, its interesting how the story of Adam and Eve in the Bible plays out. Stay with me. When Satan was sent out of heaven down onto the garden of Eden, he was able to convince Eve to eat of the fruit of the tree of knowledge. Eve disobeyed the natural hierarchy by disobeying god first and then handing the apple to Adam as if being the authority to him. Adam ate because he did not want to lose the pleasure from being around Eve. When God came to ask Adam, the authority he had layed out, why have they eaten of the tree, he blamed the woman, abdicated responsibility. Since then men have a weakness towards effiminacy (unwilling to seperate from pleasure), and women have had an inclination to control men and rebel from the natural order. (Its why abortion, feminisms, and witchcraft is so popular and takes on a spiritual element for many rebellious women)

"To the woman also he said: I will multiply thy sorrows, and thy conceptions: in sorrow shalt thou bring forth children, and thou shalt be under thy husband's power, and he shall have dominion over thee" [Genesis 3:16]

Its just interesting that even a book as ancient as the bible recognized a revolutionary energy women have. When a women doesn't respect a weak man, she tries to control him, its in her nature.

Asamiya1978 · 2024-04-07T22:07:29+00:00

Sounds sociopathic. Too many red flags.

CautiousPassage7 · 2024-04-07T10:36:11+00:00

Marriage is only for Chads but chads don't need to get married because every woman wants to be with them. Normal guys feel lucky to be in a marriage or threatened with loneliness and after the documents are signed the woman can legally walk all over them.

NameIs-Already-Taken · 2024-04-07T11:30:33+00:00

She is feeding those fantasies. They are likely to hurt her husband and she is likely to end up single.

Glass-Construction22 · 2024-04-07T12:29:05+00:00

This is wild

GrowGrow_ · 2024-04-07T17:26:45+00:00

And then they make protests for „femizid“ kills. Not saying it’s justified but in my personal opinion most woman are mentally ill but it completely goes under the radar as everything is just blamed on men. I hope this guy finds peace without a useless scumbag like her.

jesusisracist · 2024-04-07T19:37:39+00:00

I saw the post. It's a porn fetish. You look up her user name she has a cuck fantasy, like having sex with strangers in front of her husband, or being tied to a chair and having her friends have sex with her husband.

Proud-Cheesecake-813 · 2024-04-07T20:28:35+00:00

Evil woman. The husband deserves better.

redidiott · 2024-04-07T23:44:29+00:00

"You're human...."

If this is what being a human is, then we deserve to go extinct.

Rock_Granite · 2024-04-08T00:28:43+00:00

Reason #289 to not get married

penduR7 · 2024-04-08T04:58:26+00:00

Where have all the morals went? The world is turning into a less moral and more degenerate place. Especially western, more developed countries.

CryLoud4926 · 2024-04-09T04:45:39+00:00

This is a bad person that is not willing to do the work in their marriage. They are looking for excitement, chaos and drama. Unfortunately many women (and I am sure some men) are this way and it excites them to think of bringing drama in their relationship. This is also about power. She craves control and power.

Current_Finding_4066 · 2024-04-07T09:47:27+00:00

She has some unresolved issues. No need to crucify her for that. She needs psychological help.

The issue I see is that if a man wrote exactly the same thing. He would get crucified.

Title	Wife has fantasies about causing husband emotional pain
Author	Present-Pineapple332
Upvotes	150
Comments	44
Date	April 7, 2024 5:13 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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