I've posted my story elsewhere in this forum, but I'm now two days from it being over with a judge. We've signed a property settlement a month ago, so this hopefully is just proforma. I needed this for all the reasons I've mentioned in those posts and I'm in a better place mentally than I was when we separated.

Still hard not to have a tinge of sadness, mild regret, and the like. Trying to remind myself how I felt the last few years we were still unseparated. Not to wallow in it, but to help me keep my eye on the prize I guess. As I've moved on, I've been forgetting how much some of the stuff that really bothered me about our relationship and the reasons I moved out. I don't want to go back, but I'm just having a bit of whatever as we move to the next step. Hopefully this is normal.