necklace shopping

Hot_Blacksmith_3404 · 2024-04-26T18:16:35+00:00

If it was a gift from him it wouldn’t be weird, but to spend your own money it is pretty strange and cringe. I would not do that.

Scared-Tea-8911 · 2024-04-26T21:20:15+00:00

Yeah I wouldn’t do it… it might be different if you were married and had a married couple monogram to put on jewelry etc, but for your boyfriend, it would likely be seen as an overreach.

Gifts with monograms or initials are symbols of commitment - think high school sweethearts giving one another their class rings, or wearing his letterman jacket. Taking that step for him without his consent would make it seem like you are forcing the relationship to progress without his input.

In my opinion… By putting his initials on yourself, you are not in your feminine/receptive energy - you are taking his initials/implied commitment, not receiving them.

Gloomy-Ad-7641 · 2024-04-26T22:03:40+00:00

Get your own. I'd only wear his initial if he gave it to you and you two were at least engaged

MuttonDressedAsGoose · 2024-04-26T19:47:31+00:00

Don't do it.

rosie00x · 2024-04-26T17:27:54+00:00

I want to wear his initial on a chain aaaround my neck !!11

Hang_your_halo · 2024-04-26T18:08:00+00:00

I think it depends on the guy. I wanted to get my husbands initial, but he didn’t like the idea. So I got the initial of my married last name which is close enough for me. I think if you want to do it, then do it, but don’t do it for the guy.

ETA: or just mention it and gauge his reaction.

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Full text: I’m about to purchase a small gold initial necklace. I was thinking of getting my bf’s initial instead of my own. Would this seem odd to him, or is this something a man would appreciate? I feel like typically women are gifted jewelry with their man’s initial instead of going and purchasing it on their own. What are your thoughts?

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Longjumping_Ad_6266 · 2024-05-02T02:39:27+00:00

Maybe pose the idea that you want him to buy it for you with his initial 👀

Typical_Bed4985 · 2024-04-26T17:12:55+00:00

Nahh get your own! Unless youre into that kinda thing 👀

Title	necklace shopping
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Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	April 26, 2024 5:06 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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