I saw a guy asking if women will date him with painted nails and a lot of women said no

AkisFatHusband · 2024-06-28T07:25:40+00:00

Wait... Women have double standards???

ilovesleep95 · 2024-06-28T18:11:15+00:00

I saw that post too. I was laughing at all the women who said no, which of course is fine as they’re entitled to standards and taste in men. However, what’s funny is their hypocrisy. If a woman posted something about herself asking if men would date her and men said no, they’d be called incels for not being attracted to her. Remember, men are not allowed to have standards anymore.

TisIChenoir · 2024-06-28T06:55:02+00:00

It's as I always said. If a man act like a woman, he will be berated, and feminists use this to say "see, they consider being feminine bad, so they consider women as inferior

The difference is not that masculinity is better than femininity. The difference is that masculinity is more rigid, more absolute than femininity.

Masculinity is something you can "lose". Femininity is not. It's stupid and I hate it, but that's how we treat it socially. A man that's not displaying masculinity is "not a real man". He is not berated for "looking feminine", he is berated for "not looking masculine enough".

HunterRenegade09 · 2024-06-28T06:01:52+00:00

Dude. If you wanna cross dress, do it. Like I said in the post you made yesterday. No need to make it an issue. Most of us guys are not dying to wear women's clothes.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2024-06-28T12:14:27+00:00

Jup there is always been dubble standards.

It's of for women to ware mens cloths stunning and brave.

But when men ware female cloths it's not ok.

There many easy pushes of what's ok and not ok accepted and not accepted. And the fact is cause women have much more ask and demand for them on sexual market place. Women have inflated egos.

And what and demand and ask for much much more then they willing to accept or find ok when it's pushed the other way.

And if you ask more then your willing to give your self. It's easy to see the relationship won't last so there many people useing each other both ways. Cause many know it's it a relationship that will last. So might as well just enjoy the ride and not catch feelings. That's more or less the dating outlook now for most people.

People useing each other. Not people working together for common goal and a united front. Most people have there bag ready in a closet to step out at any moment. But that's normal when you have to do much more for much less value and more risks. It's like playing hot potato. You willing to play with and burn your self just enough to get what you want out of it. And drop it as soon as it gets too hot or difficult to hold on to. And you toss it on the street for the next one to pick it up and try it.

WolfInTheMiddle · 2024-06-28T13:04:08+00:00

On a feminist sub there were women who were really excited about the idea of more men wearing nail polish in the future so maybe he should ask them?

Personally I don’t begrudge women who don’t find men attractive when they wear bras or use nail polish. What I don’t like is when they pretend to like it or if they are the exception that do and try to talk about it as if this is what every woman would want because they like it. It’s dumb and reeks of a lack of self awareness.

Make-TFT-Fun-Again · 2024-06-28T13:23:13+00:00

Lol have them choose between a 6’2 oliver sykes and a 5’2 epitome od masculinity and watch them change their minds faster than a f1 team changes tires.

CogitoErgoSum4me · 2024-06-28T21:14:59+00:00

As a girl, I dgaf what a man wears or not, as long as his junk works and he helps around the house. If it makes you happy to paint your nails, rock it.

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2024-06-29T01:38:21+00:00

Clearly none of those women are in the Goth scene, where guys with painted nails and eyeliner are the norm, regardless of sexual orientation.

jaypb182 · 2024-06-28T11:43:21+00:00

I paint my nails sometimes just to mess around. Believe me, painted nails are the least of your concerns when it comes to the requirements women place on men.

Baka_Burger · 2024-06-28T15:36:54+00:00

As a guy who's had painted nails every day for the past 3-4 years, I get the most compliments about my nails from women. In fact, I've only ever been ridiculed for it by toxic dudes, and I've had women stand up for me on two different occasions.

It's honestly not so much about double standards for genders than it is about traditional gender roles and gender presentation.

Women couldn't wear pants way back in the day, because that was considered a 'man' thing. Many view bail polish as a 'woman' thing. Thankfully, things are changing for the better.

Ok-Highway615 · 2025-05-18T02:16:30+00:00

My Gf Painted my nails blue today 😂

Vaudeville_Clown · 2024-06-28T10:42:27+00:00

I find it a bit inconclusive? Most women respond no to a man asking a general "would you date me"? question regardlessly. If you ask "am I datable"? (Noone targeted), they'll all respond yes, because noone would have to admit "Sure, I'd go for you" if the question is posed that way. Finally, If a man says "I'm not datable" as a hard fact, they'll get pissed off and go "How dare you imply all women think and feel the same"!?

This aside, there's a known issue women have with feminine men, but often times, that problem can be circumvented if the man is self assured, socially dominant and arrogantly unconcerned about how others judge him for doing his thing. (Masculine were it counts)

The softer on the outside, the harder you have to be on the inside generally.

I believe so, because I've seen feminine and bi men get with loads of women successfully, but they were very similar. I think, if these guys had even a silver of insecurity, humility, "soft" personality, whatever they'd have no chance.

Combination man + feminity + (even slight) insecurity is impossible.

WeEatBabies · 2024-06-28T11:01:00+00:00

I'll just leave this here, ... former UFC Light Heavyweight Champion Of The World Chuck Lidell paints his toe nails.

Ultra famous Magician Penn paints his nails, ...

Those feminists who say they wouldn't date men with painted nails and insults us would be wet in the mere presence of those men!

Roamer56 · 2024-06-29T19:23:02+00:00

Women can bitch and whine all they want, but if a dude doesn’t want one based on his preferences that is that. Done. Deal with it.

Title	I saw a guy asking if women will date him with painted nails and a lot of women said no
Author	Ok_Control2664
Upvotes	123
Comments	86
Date	June 28, 2024 5:51 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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