Been told I am funny, but not “flirty” or “charming”?

Peacebone000 · 2024-07-06T03:25:04+00:00

Don't be explicit or offensive. You need to work on being more witty and use sexual innuendos instead of jokes. And always be playful when you say it.

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-07-06T06:17:47+00:00

Bruv your job is not to be mr.perfect for woman woman have flaws and are horrible people and have deficiencies just like men , your job is to become the truest form of your self that “you” are happy with than find a woman that will accept that person tbh if she can’t accept you at your worse than why would you want her at your best . You should improve your self but not for a woman but because it’s the right thing to do for you lmaooo stop living for woman live for yourself find a passion Jesus

norwegiandoggo · 2024-07-06T06:45:24+00:00

You say you have no problems with physical escalation. That part of your game is smooth. So what's the problem then? Since you say that, I assume you can get sex easily and thus you have solved physical escalation, and thus you have solved the goal you probably had for seduction: Getting laid.

If you can get laid, who cares if you were "not flirty enough"? It doesn't make any sense. You reached your goal. You don't need to invent new problems

TonyDCoaching · 2024-07-06T03:26:13+00:00

You can convey more sexual vibe by including light touching in your flirtation.

Peacebone000 · 2024-07-06T05:21:58+00:00

Well you say you can keep them interested in conversations so you have to practice being adaptive and make jokes about something that you notice or the subject you are talking about in those conversations. And also timing plays a part too as if you wait too long you seem like just another friendly guy. Practice making some easy jokes that you can use in conversations and see what lands and what doesn't.

DaygameCode · 2024-07-06T20:31:44+00:00

You need to literally tell the. that you find them hot, that you may fall in love with her if she keeps looking/smiling at you like that, that you are trying so hard not to push her against the wall and devour her neck.

You need to actually say these type of things unapologetically in a completely shameless way when you are alone face to face with her. (Strong emphasis on the “face to face” part because those lines are not to be used through texts as they won’t have the same impact at all).

I know why you probably are scared to use lines like this which is the reason why you don’t make women feel sexual tension, and that is because you may be afraid of getting a bad reaction if the woman hears you say that to her.

But the thing is that sexual tension is supposed to potentially create that type of discomfort. Hence why it’s called sexual “TENSION”.

Using humor may work well to get them invested and comfortable with you but failure to break some of that comfort with direct sexual expressions of desire will make you come across as nothing more than a friend at best.

Sexual tension must be expressed openly shamelessly , unapologetically and if she seems like she reacts badly to it, you must never apologise or take it back because that would show insecurity. You need to double down as in “it is what it is”, “i said what i said” “i ain’t gonna say sorry”.

berzerker5000 · 2024-07-06T16:59:22+00:00

If you are teasing while physically escalating successfully, I’m not sure why you would have an issue. A lot of my bantering is implying they are a “x type of girl” improve w/ situation, or taking some mundane topic and making it sexual sounding “oh you like it like that huh”… that may sound too simple but then she may play on it so you can riff into some dirtier talk and go from there. A classic cheesier one that can be good if not overdone is when she makes some motion with a cigarette or drink that looks like she is jerking it off, you make some joke on you like how she does that or “ the way you do that looks reminds me of something else.” You can compliment their clothing too or neg them about i which can riff into talking about her phat ass or her talking about your clothes and body…also body language and how you position yourself to sort of contain her in a low key masculine way is important. But as long as you are getting closer physically, you want her to start getting handsy with you as well so you know it’s on.

One-Hedgehog4722 · 2024-07-07T02:41:30+00:00

One easy trick that might help, is when youre looking at the girl, look at her like you want to fuck her, even better if you get an erection, that energy you build is projecting to her and she may pick up on it and feel it and get aroused. Try doing more with your body language and your eyes, i would eye fuck this girl like crazy and she later told me shed feel really hot when i was around her

epimpstyle · 2024-07-06T23:42:57+00:00

idk how to go with sexual escalation verbally…

The more you talk about sex, the less likely it is to happen.

The next stage when you are witty/playful is KINO, if you are good with KINO I see no problem but I guess you are not as good as you said. A good kino will have the result of you kissing. There is no need to say "nasty" jokes unless it helps you make KINO.

If that girl said to you "I can’t believe you haven’t made an explicit flirt line with me yet.", honestly she is a B... (the word that rhymes with witch)

Tough_Palpitation331 · 2024-07-06T04:37:06+00:00

What’s ur height and race?

Title	Been told I am funny, but not “flirty” or “charming”?
Author	Tough_Palpitation331
Upvotes	37
Comments	19
Date	July 6, 2024 3:09 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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