Note: I have used primarily the information that is contained in the posts in the sidebar underneath the section named "Required Theory Reading" as well as some of my own conclusions. I give all the credit to those authors except for the pieces I myself have added to this post.
There are methods and social contrivances women have used for centuries to ensure that the best male's genes are selected and secured with the best male provisioning she is capable of attracting. We call that "Alpha fucks, beta bucks." Ideally the best Man should exemplify both.
Women love men differently to the way men love women. Women's love is based on adoration. Adoration is a concentrated amount of respect. Respect is derived from power.
Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. Everyone needs to realize that men are the "romantics pretending to be realists" and women - vice versa.
Women rely on men to be emotionally stoic, we often call this "holding frame". You have to be mentally strong so she can lean on you. She finds that attractive. You cannot lean on her. Otherwise she will lose her respect for you, from there her adoration, from there her "love".
The resulting love that defines a long-term relationship is the result of coming to an understanding of this impossibility for you to be open and vulnerable and re-imagining what it should be for Men. Men have been, and should be, the dominant gender. Leaving behind the Blue Pill Dream of the unconditional love that a woman can provide seems like killing an old friend, but unlearning that old paradigm and learning that women are hypergamous and would have the "strong of the day" allows you to benefit from a far more hopeful Red Pill existence.
Women make many statements that are tests (shit-tests) to see if the man can remain congruent in his alpha personality, where the woman is actually hoping the man does not eagerly comply to her wishes. By demonstrating her faux indicator of disinterest and negativity does not phase you, you prove that you are an emotionally developed person, who is not going to melt down at the first sign of trouble. There are a couple of ways to deal with shit-tests: agreeing and amplifying it to absurdity, not paying attention to the test, or commanding respect, i.e. "That is disrespectful and I will not tolerate it."
TRP traits: 1. Be dominant about every single thing. Leave her with no choice at all, hence choose for her, lead her in the direction you want. 2. Be the stable rock (emotionally stoic) onto which she could rest with her huge waves of emotions. Maintain that "frame" all the time. 3. You must be confrontational and risk-taking. Anger-ridden (fair anger) confrontational attitude is the only emotion that must be shown. 4. Never be attached to outcome with her. 5. Success in the SMV (social market value) is everything so always strive to improve yourself in the following fields: health/fitness, wealth, relationships, aspirations/missions in life. 6. Treat her like a child from a father-to-daughter paradigm. The whole concept of 'beta' is embodied in how men deal with women who they want maternal love from. They are the weak ones, seeking approval, expecting this ocean of support, putting a woman on a pedestal. Never seek validation from that child, nor ask that child if it is okay for you to do something. Be the father figure.
To wrap it up: Men are not born. Men are created.
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