I want to start off by saying I could have done better on this encounter but I fully believe I am being falsely accused.

Met this girl on hinge. Hit it off like crazy. She was so sweet and nice and interested in me and kept telling me how handsome I was.

After the first date she invited me over at 8:30pm for wine. We start kissing and have sex once. The sex wasn’t great, we did not connect. We even talked about it. Later that night we started kissing and she asked if she could get on top and have sex again so we did. Although I could not find my condom. I pulled out way before. However I told her I would buy her plan B. We did not have sex again that night.

In the morning before we were going to the store to get plan B just to be safe…we had sex again (3 times now) when I was close to finishing I asked if I could finish inside of her. Really fucking stupid decision, I hate myself so much, she kinda mumbled something and I didn’t fully make it out but no where in my mind did I hear NO. On everything I love I did not hear no. She had no AC in her apartment so there were fans going and they were really loud. The childish stupid assumption of me was that we were going to get plan B and she wouldn’t care. Fucking stupid.

I went to the bathroom to clean up and came back and saw this look on her face when she realized I finished inside. When I realized I ran over and we held each other as I apologized profusely. We talked about it and she was ok. We went to the pharmacy and bought plan B and then went on a coffee date. Everything totally fine. Lots of flirting and what not.

I told her I didn’t want to have sex again and wanted to be friends because of how weird it all was and the vibes. She agreed.

Even after that though she went on a trip and was still very flirt and even sent me explicit texts and pictures.

Then, at 1 am when I am sleeping she texts me that what I did was rape and she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore.

We then had a dialogue where she very aggressively and in a threatening tone (legally) wanted me to admit to raping her. I would not admit to it so she said she blocked me.

This person also has stated they have been raped “a lot” by 3 other guys and how she could ruin all of them but didn’t. Idk if this info is super pertinent to my question.

So basically she desperately wanted me to admit I raped her which I will not do. I am nervous she is going to press charges but I am totally fine with hiring an attorney.

This is all so crazy to me. I have never been accused of anything like this. I’m single but I have family and a good job and I am just concerned.