I've noticed that water is wet.

WornBlueCarpet · 2024-07-09T17:38:43+00:00

No responses on the dating apps?

Funny how they only see this as a problem when it's women who experience this. It's the default experience for the vast majority of men, but whatever, right?

CRobinsFly · 2024-07-09T19:10:52+00:00

She said in there that the conversations stop after a few sentences.

There is an easy way to fix the lack of success: push for a date immediately with guys who are talking with you, as that's a shot on goal and already a privilege theyre giving you. Offer to pay for the date. Be accomodating.

Ultimately, you have to buy 'valuable' men's attention now, at 40+. You have to open up the ability to score, we already know you were a wide open goal previously and now you want us to put shots on goal with a torn net?

AtkinsCatkins · 2024-07-09T19:07:36+00:00

Women need to understand this UNESCAPABLE principle.

With equal numbers of men and women (as good as) in the world. the only way on earth its possible to have a "surplus" of offers in youth as women do is at the cost of offers in older age.

because the people who would date women in the 40s are chasing girls in their 20s.

If everyone stuck to their own age groups, young women would have absolutely no "premium" about them, and would be just as likely to be lonely or unchased as men, because demand is exactly equal to supply.

The only way demand is greater than supply is if you start getting from older generations, and that is exactly what happens.

Lonely miserable women is mathematically INEVITABLE, if there are desireable younger women who are in demand.

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-07-10T04:24:04+00:00

When you think they cannot be so daft at 40+, they prove you wrong....

Stonks1337 · 2024-07-10T07:22:29+00:00

Falling off after the early game

Mein_Tarnaccount · 2024-07-10T10:26:32+00:00

Any man who has the slightest bit of success on these apps will not look for 40+ year olds. No way she's attractive, but it wouldn't matter if she was.

DrDog09 · 2024-07-10T17:28:38+00:00

Two events in the same posting:

* She is probably a 4 at best chasing 9/10s. Same as what most posters have said here.

* Appocalypse. It is becoming common knowledge at least among men that dating apps are a waste of time. So the pool is morphing. The 8/9/10 level men have found better pastures for their dating proclivities. All those 7 and below are given no heed by the women. The apps themselves are struggling to stay afloat. The apps are becoming a wasteland.

CottonEyedCooch · 2024-07-11T01:08:32+00:00

Shagging spinsters is good sport to tide you over until you bag the younger woman you actually want. It would take a lot for her to come to terms with this, I imagine.

spoughhoat · 2024-07-11T14:30:16+00:00

Well, at least you're not trying to argue that fire is dry.

Rufus-P-Melonballer · 2024-07-09T16:44:07+00:00

Well, well, well... how the turntables.

ArtVandelay2025 · 2024-07-09T17:11:58+00:00

Tragical. Absolutely tragical. Can't believe it?!

lurkerhasarisen · 2024-07-09T17:18:32+00:00

I don’t think I’m unattractive

You’re probably wrong, honey. If NO members of the opposite sex are interested in being with you, you are not attractive.

Considering that a large percentage of men would shag a tree stump, I’m going to say that her declaration that she’s “not a model” is the understatement of the year. Alternatively, she might be just going for men who are well out of her league.

AlexanderDean1980 · 2024-07-09T17:20:31+00:00

I've noticed more and more the cognitive dissonance with women I've known for most of my life.

They refuse to accept any fact of life that doesn't benifit them and believe full heartedly that the world will bend to their will and fall into any and all exceptions and manifestations to prove they can overcome the odds.

The only way to get them to be reasonable and see the logic to change their ways is with a shocking traumatic event to threaten their worldview and view of themselves and situation. That is often met with disbelief, anger, depression, barginging and then acceptance.

Overkillengine · 2024-07-09T21:46:11+00:00

41f

What reason is there for any man that has anything good going on in his life to bother? He'd just be expected to invest a ton of time and resources into acquiring an expensive middle aged room mate.

Sorry not sorry sweaty, it's either you go for the tier of men that you treated at best like furniture your entire life up until this point (and ladies....ALL of you have these sort of men around you, the only difference is your personal cutoff point for doing it), or die alone.

Kryllist · 2024-07-09T23:25:51+00:00

It's quite shocking that in 2024 women are still shocked they aren't as in demand as they get older.

These women can't even make themselves come off as not basic through text on reddit, so you know they're extremely mid in actual real life. But they're expecting results that supercede what they are, which is below average.

There needs to be some governmental agency that tells women their market value so they can start maximizing their lives while they have the opportunity and stop playing stupid when they hit the wall.

SceneAccomplished549 · 2024-07-10T00:48:48+00:00

I've said this countless times now but my empathy and sympathy levels are completely gone for these women.

I'm 32, before I went MGTOW (which is now going on a decade before I knew what it ment) I barely had ANY dating prospects. I'm not a buff guy, nor am I a rich guy, I'm just a tall, skinny average dude who is between a 4.5-6.5 (depending on who you ask).

If you don't give the average guys a chance back in the day, why would any guy give you a chance in your day?

Fuck them.

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