Promise to self - approach 20 girls every week

ohmygad45 · 2024-08-16T20:16:49+00:00

Good plan. I’d suggest taking off the table asking for or giving contact info so you can practice opening a friendly conversation with a woman with no expectations whatsoever. Once you get really comfortable with that, then you can graduate to assessing whether she’s unfriendly, polite-friendly, or flirty-friendly. Pro-tip: only shoot your shot if it’s the latter.

kobegoat222444 · 2024-08-16T23:43:52+00:00

Don’t have a Quota just talk to girls ur attracted to

AnthonyPillarella · 2024-08-16T20:52:00+00:00

If you find it difficult to hit all 20, try 10. Or 5.

Pick a number you can successfully do, then increase it over time. Because if you set a goal so high you won't reach it, your only feedback will be that you've failed. Even if you've made objectively great progress.

Also, seconding /u/ohmygad45's advice.

Amazing_Noise_5945 · 2024-08-16T21:02:43+00:00

If you do goal of 5 I can do it with you and hold us accountable

Dandys3107 · 2024-08-17T11:21:21+00:00

I would rather change it to something like “I would seek some rapport with 20 girls a day”. Approaching mindlessly and collecting rejections is pretty dull and not healthy. Learn the game from the very beginning. Otherwise, it feels like you are just shooting random shot for girls eager for quick date, which are pretty rare to begin with. Instead, you should firstly learn how to naturally present interest and study girl’s subtleties and body language.

mackie__m · 2024-08-16T21:01:46+00:00

This is not the way of Tao. Don’t force. Let it happen.

TheWingmanForYou · 2024-08-17T05:04:18+00:00

That’s too much bro, you’re going to burn yourself out and run out of women to talk to if you’re in a local area

emirsolinno · 2024-08-17T00:06:38+00:00

man I love this sub lol

seeingbetweenthejay · 2024-08-16T20:13:23+00:00

you got this!

Aftercot · 2024-08-17T08:03:52+00:00

Hmm, I'll try to hit a goal of 100. Probably way too much but aim higher.

Aftercot · 2024-08-17T08:06:14+00:00

I recently watched justin Marc's bootcamp videos, and he has a mixture of girls he approached and paid models, but I really liked his exercise of "you have to approach 100 people in a day. And you can only come back home once the quota is done, or you get laid"

poopiebuttcheeks · 2024-08-17T14:08:55+00:00

If your goal is to go this hard your approach will feel unnatural. Go for it sure but don't put a number on it and relax a little lol

MrPound4Pound · 2024-08-17T15:49:53+00:00

this includes women you're not attracted to?

Born-Gap9125 · 2024-08-18T14:05:08+00:00

Yeah!

berzerker5000 · 2024-08-19T04:22:57+00:00

Get it bro

bobafet2395 · 2024-08-17T00:32:13+00:00

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Title	Promise to self - approach 20 girls every week
Author	oldmonkboy
Upvotes	54
Comments	27
Date	August 16, 2024 8:00 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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