Greetings TRP readers. I was recently put on to this website from a friend who told me that I had to check it out because it is basically all the things that I tell him about relationships between men and women.
Let me give you a little background before I go on to one of my more recent experiences. I am 47 years old now and was raised by my mother after her and my father were divorced when I was a year old. This gave me the wrong perspective on relationships because I always would overhear my mother complaining to her girlfriends how all men are assholes and the good men were either gay or taken. So, I vowed from an early age to not be an "asshole". I am sure you guessed it, I became Beta in relationships. In every other aspects of my life I am extremely Alpha. I am a type A personality that has to succeed in everything I do. I was an elite athlete, went to university with a full academic scholarship, and am very successful. Yet, with women that lesson I learned from my mother never left me...the whole happy wife is a happy life. So, whenever I was in a relationship and I was being the romantic, giving, loving man (pushover) I thought was expected it just never felt right--by the way, in the bedroom I am also very dominant. I have been divorced 3 times now and the last one, eight years ago, finally woke me up. I never had TRP to teach me earlier in my life I had to learn through the school of hard knocks. Usually after a divorce I acted very Alpha, through the healing phase I could not give two shits about a woman's feelings and got laid on a very regular basis. Then when I found one I really liked I would immediately turn Beta...we would get serious, get married, and then end in divorce. For the last eight years I vowed to never go Beta again. I have the following rules now: 1. I only date women in their 20's because the women over 30 are serious damaged goods that only complain about how all there ex's have abused them in some way. It is the new mantra of mature women. 2. I only go out with 8's or higher. I have never in my life had a woman that was less then a 7. I would rather jerk off for months then lower my standards in this regard. 3. I will not go out with anyone for longer than 6 months. I find that this is the natural biological clock of females to start asking the "all we do is go out have fun and then have sex, questions." 4. If I do find the unicorn then we will live in separate homes and I will be happy to be monogamous but will never, ever, get married again. So, on to my recent experience. I work out on a regular basis and for a few weeks every time I was at the gym I would see this hot female long distance runner running on the track, it was winter so she had to run indoors. After a few times, I said hello to her and asked her if she was an athlete and things progressed from there. I asked her for her cell number and we started texting. By the way, she was 22 yrs old at the time and smoking hot. Pretty much every guy there was drooling over her. I started ignoring her at the gym, and didn't answer her texts for a couple days then one day out of the blue I sent her a text on a Saturday morning telling her that I had fantasized about her and could not sleep the night before because my fantasy was so hot. Dangled that bait out there for her and waited to see if she would take a nibble. She replied immediately and told me that she was out on a date with some guy and that she could not stop thinking about me and that she got drunk, they were making out and she even called him my name. I then told her that I noticed her limping after her runs and she told me that she had injured her foot. I asked her to come over for a foot massage and she showed up in a half hour. Needless to say I took care of all her needs that day, which she later told me was the best sex she ever had. She became my submissive for about 3 months after that until the inevitable happened. She started asking me about my feelings and that she wanted something more from me, so I cut and we ended it on fairly good terms. Still say hi to each other in the gym. I see her at the clubs once in a while and she flirts with me but I do not take the bait and give her the cold shoulder. Couple of pointers that I use for success: 1. Always approach a woman with confidence. As is pointed out here on TRP often, shoulders back, head held high, have a bit of a swagger but don't look like some ghetto rapper. 2. Immediately let a woman know with your body language and the way you look at her, the subtle looking her up and down, but do not initially verbalise it. With hot girls, its actually best to tease them about something as they are inundated with lame beta's who tell them how hot they are. For example, the hot runner I told you about the first thing I said to her was, "I notice you run a lot but you look like you were hurting today. Had a rough weekend or what?" Not too insulting but she immediately realized that I had been checking her out and that I could care less about getting laid or not. 3. The first time you kiss, have sex, or share any intimacy make sure you have your A game on. If you want to have her as a regular distraction you have to give her more pleasure than she has ever experienced before you. Having said that, be Alpha. I have met many women in my life that swear to not enjoy giving oral until they met me, because they had to, I gave them no choice. They were used to whining to beta's and getting what they want. I have many, many, more life experiences with women that I would be happy to share. Even if it's just to put a smile on your faces.