Why would she be hot and cold toward me?

DaygameCode · 2024-08-31T22:37:35+00:00

The problem is not actually what she does, but what you choose to entertain.

If you had options, this wouldn’t be an issue but because you are needy then you keep playing into this games. Ironically, when you play into these games you can never win because the woman loses respect for you. And when women don’t respect you, they simply don’t date you or want anything with you.

Ironically, you may say so how can I win and that’s the problem, it’s not about winning, it’s about the treatment that you believe you deserve.

If you need to win despite poor treatment, you will not because that outcome dependence and neediness is counterproductive and only shows lack of self-respect.

The strongest negotiating position is honestly being willing to walk away and mean it. When you choose to tolerate shit that you don’t enjoy just because you hope it will be worth it in the end, you will not get that woman and your resentment towards them will grow.

TroyJack · 2024-09-01T03:34:09+00:00

Not all women are dateable. So many women have trauma nowadays. And a lot of it. You can't fix them. They need a ton of professional therapy. A lot of that trauma is from childhood or guys who just pump and dump. Not saying I'm innocent in all of this since there was a short time where I was just hooking up with women and not carrying about the consequences but I quickly learned that just sleeping with a bunch of women damages you and them in the long term in that it's harder to have a deep connection and a strong bond with someone.

Raknith · 2024-09-01T04:04:53+00:00

She doesn’t reply when the other guy is texting/fucking her

thebomb2644 · 2024-08-31T22:01:57+00:00

Because she craves attention

appolonysian · 2024-09-01T04:12:49+00:00

Two reasons, neither of them good. One - she thinks she can do better, and two - she likes having a reliable attention source. Leave her be.

grldgcapitalz2 · 2024-08-31T23:04:11+00:00

thats just how hot women usually are man they got options wouldnt you accidently play with other peoples lives if people readily threw themselves at you daily

Dandys3107 · 2024-09-01T12:36:26+00:00

Maybe for fun. Women are different. Keep your frame, stay laidback and push towards your ultimate goal anyways.

Hour_One_9504 · 2024-08-31T23:08:30+00:00

she an attention w****. Thus, you shall move and never ever look at her again. Don't u ever lower ur standard boy.

No_Hat9118 · 2024-08-31T22:10:42+00:00

Because you’re not spiking her emotions enough

Title	Why would she be hot and cold toward me?
Author	Amazondriver23
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	August 31, 2024 10:00 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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