Should i always drop straight away low effort conversations?

DaygameCode · 2024-09-03T15:44:10+00:00

The problem is that while you got her number you did not actually seduced her or connect with her in person, so as a result she is not really interested in you.

Talking to women for the sole purpose of getting her number asap leads to really poor success rate. If you want dates and sex from cold approach, you need to focus on creating a solid connection in person before you get her number.

Jironasaurus · 2024-09-03T15:53:10+00:00

When I started out trying to learn how to attract women, I pushed every conversation I had to its limit. If she were low effort, I'd try my darndest best to see if I can get her to invest more.

So, in my opinion, if you treat this as a science and want to figure things out, push your limits. Otherwise, move on to the next. Of course, that also means you'll take longer to figure out what works and what doesn't, and you'll inevitably cycle through more numbers to get good.

Ok-Entertainer-1401 · 2024-09-03T21:03:39+00:00

Try to get them to meet up with you. See their response. Most of your conversations should be in person to build rapport.

If they give wishy washy answers to your meet up suggestion, then move on. Anything other than a yes is a no.

Biichimspiderman · 2024-09-03T15:12:53+00:00

I’d stop texting and just call her. She could just be nervous

dobbs1997 · 2024-09-03T23:49:21+00:00

Dude you answered your own question in the post, you said “i didn’t say nothing that meaningful yet”, which implies you’re just talking about a whole bunch of nothing with her so why should she respond with any kind of positive and enthusiastic energy ?? Why are you as a man not making everything you say to a woman meaningful, why all the fluff?

InstructionAbject763 · 2024-09-08T23:13:20+00:00

Some people suck at texting. Or conversations

I hate when men expect me to be like this oogpy googly texting everyday 😒

When you text me to set up dates

We date

At least that's how I feel

Unless we haven't seen each other, I dont care about your fucking morning every fucking morning

And if you're not asking or saying anything interesting you cannot expect interesting answers

"How's your day?"

"Good"

Like, God, those conversations are the worst

SocialDisco · 2024-09-03T15:05:27+00:00

Yes.

Captain_w00t · 2024-09-03T15:23:04+00:00

Conversations shouldn’t happen through text. Period.

Call her, or text to invite her on a date, that’s how you see if they’re interested.

Title	Should i always drop straight away low effort conversations?
Author	tyYdraniu
Upvotes	1
Comments	33
Date	September 3, 2024 2:56 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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