How do you cope with the process of getting divorced? I recognise I'm in a pretty favourable position overall, no kids, short marriage, good job and in a position to buy her out our property. It truly was an awful marriage (<2 years), but for the first time in my life I can't get over the feeling of complete failure. But even with our minimal assets its going to take until at least early next year to finalise - I just want to be rid of her. I'm not sleeping or living well at the moment and have a new major responsibility coming up at work in October, can anyone recommend ways of coping with all this going on?