Going to a my first nightclub solo tonight

ratfooshi · 2024-09-27T16:48:28+00:00

Welcome to the club!

This has been my lifestyle for several years.
It's easier than you think.

• First, realize solo is your superpower. It creates mystery.

• Have great eye contact, and approach those who return it.

• Use gradual light touches and adapt to their moods.

• Remember names and listen more than you speak.

• Don't be afraid to show you can vibe alone at times.

You're dolo in the club mingling, dancing, vibing, and everyone's gonna notice, cause that's not your everyday confidence.

GroundbreakingLeg131 · 2024-09-27T17:15:19+00:00

Just do what your there for, getting rejected and rizzing, remember this is a numbers game. Until you got this shit on lock, expect failure!

czxthrowaway · 2024-09-27T20:47:40+00:00

The first time, it’s gonna feel weird. Don’t be surprised if you just end up leaving without approaching anyone. But that’s fine, just showing up is progress. Just keep going. This pattern may persist for the next month or so of going out alone, and that’s fine. just keep going. You might feel like people are looking at you and wondering why you’re alone. Trust me they don’t care. just keep going.

Eventually you’ll approach a bit and maybe get no results, and that’s fine, just keep going.

The way you know you’ve got solo down, is when you can just sort of stand in the middle of the crowd, loud music and all, and you feel comfortable, almost in a numb sort of way. And approaching or not approaching isn’t even a question so long as you’re really into the girl.

I prefer solo now. I love that I can just go in, and if i don’t see anyone i like, just leave and bounce somewhere else without having the constraint of what my friends want to do. If i’m just going out for fun or for a good DJ, i go with friends. If my goal is to meet a baddie, always alone.

It personally took me 3-6 months of going out alone every weekend, both friday and saturday, until i got to the point where i felt completely comfortable and able to approach as described above.

I remember one time I was in a club solo, just hunting, it was so obvious i was hunting that a guy came up to me and said “dude it’s so obvious that you’re just here looking for girls” and i immediately replied “yeah and so are you but i don’t hide it and im gonna end up with the one right over there” and i did exactly that.

grldgcapitalz2 · 2024-09-27T16:45:54+00:00

be confident social and uplifting enjoy yourself

albinopolarbearr · 2024-09-27T16:53:59+00:00

Respect for this bro very brave but liberating thing to do. Best of luck 👊

burncushlikewood · 2024-09-27T19:32:40+00:00

Walk slowly around the club, approach be confident, don't be afraid to use false time constraints, space is the key to being successful. If you dance with a girl leave and say hey I'm gonna grab a drink, come back to her later! Befriend men in the club and ask if they can wingman for you, don't simp, pay attention, its sometimes hard to talk in there so use body language, use push pull, and the most important tip of them all have fun! The club is a great place to meet women and sometimes even men

Sandvicheater · 2024-09-27T22:50:38+00:00

As the old proverb goes, "He who travels alone travels quickest"

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-09-28T02:33:39+00:00

One skill you’re building is learning how to deal with social pressure. If it’s uncomfortable, that’s good. It means your doing the work to level up. Adapt a mindset like that. Avoid negative self judgment. Have fun.

pandora_amazone · 2024-09-27T20:15:38+00:00

I've tried this last week. I stayed like 15minutes doing nothing then I leaved.
Honestly I admire guys who can get laid by going solo to club. For me, I was too shy to dance alone or to approach group of people.

Jager737 · 2024-09-28T09:29:08+00:00

Now we need an update

Hank-Mooody · 2024-09-27T18:42:18+00:00

First congrats you have the balls to go solo.
Now go to a random dude compliment his shoes/outfit anything you find attractive now talk to him for few mins, good you're now social. Now approach women and game. Talk to many guys they are so easy and sometimes they will buy beers and include you in their group because you are a cool dude and you are no longer solo.

SunnySunshines19 · 2024-09-27T21:38:37+00:00

are you male or female? as a girl its easy, i just dress slutty and i make friends in 5 minutes

Title	Going to a my first nightclub solo tonight
Author	_ZeroSixteen
Upvotes	72
Comments	35
Date	September 27, 2024 4:27 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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