How to connect daily

pieorstrudel5 · 2024-10-24T21:46:56+00:00

I would say you would do better to lean back and learn to sit with some discomfort while you wait to talk/see him again. It is not the man's job to emotionally regulate you. I personally think this idea that someone you are not married to has to check in with you every day is absurd. And it clearly is wearing on you. I don't want a lack of text message to make me think a man doesn't care for me. He might just be busy. Assume the best until proven otherwise.

Rather, what are ways that you can connect with yourself to have better confidence with the man in your life? The more confidence you have the less reassurance you'll need from a man. That's a lot of power to give someone.

What does your health and fitness routine look like? - maybe explore a new type of exercise, I have been really trying to hit a yoga class followed by the sauna at my gym. Impacts my sleep in a good way. I also weight lift almost daily and am a regular at Zumba (just fun way to move my body).

Could you get involved with volunteer work with your community? Food banks? Diaper and feminine product banks? A local garden? Art museum? Everyone needs volunteers.

What about ways to connect with other people? - book clubs, host a girls night in, join a community sport league (kickball, volleyball, corn hole, etc).

Maybe pick a recipe and learn to make a new dish. Bonus - the left overs will be great for lunches. I have gotten really good at home bartending. Maybe learn to make your man's favorite drink. Every man that's ever been in my life loves that I can cook and make good cocktails.

And then what about your self care routine? - the night before a date night ..... I am doing the most to get ready. Hair, shave, pedicure, manicure, teeth whitening, and sometimes I do a self tanner.

I am sure plenty of people here will tell you how to feel connected to your man. Just make sure you aren't operating in a scarcity mindset.

InevitableKiwi5776 · 2024-10-24T22:31:40+00:00

So you’re saying you live together and struggle to connect daily? Meals are usually good for that. Like making sure everyone eats together at the table without screens. Then cleaning up afterwards together. Playing a game or taking a walk after dinner. Walking together is a great way to connect, especially if you can just go out your door and take a quick walk.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2024-10-25T18:32:52+00:00

We have a whiteboard in our shared office where we leave each other notes. Also sometimes hiding little notes in places we will find them. Sometimes they'll go unnoticed until weeks later and it's always a nice reminder especially on days we aren't together.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2024-10-25T21:56:09+00:00

What are your respective love languages? Work on giving/receiving in his/yours.

It seems from the comments that you two are quite busy. Anyway to cut back and make more time for the marriage?

Schedule time together. Walks, sex, cocktails, sex, watching TV together, sex...whatever it happens to be.

on days without sex

Sometimes a quickie bj will make a guy feel very connected. Just sayin'.

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Full text: I struggle with anxious attachment, and I am looking for ways that don't involve texting to connect daily...like on days without sex, dates, etc. I appreciate your input!

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Fantastic-Fudge888 · 2024-10-26T11:38:03+00:00

Feeling your feelings is such a beautiful act.

Harness the energy.

Playlist to encourage the emotions to flow, works perfectly when you end with an orgasm 🔥

Title	How to connect daily
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Date	October 24, 2024 6:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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