Have any of you guys got to the point where you just wanted to settle down with a woman and lost the desire to seduce/game? I’m at a point in my life where I got into seduction too late. I developed the right mindset a few years ago but never really got into applying it in cold approach. I understand the general concepts of value, frame etc and how attraction works/what women respond to. Because of this, I ended up meeting a woman who started chasing me and we got into a relationship once she got to know me. We split recently and it was awesome as far as our masculine/feminine dynamic goes. At this point, I do want to cold approach for the sake of genuinely building the skill, as I have the non-approach-related stuff (career, real confidence, fitness, sense of style, overall competence, leadership qualities etc) at a place that is certainly not lacking, but at the same time I feel like if I find a girl I like enough where the dynamic is good, I’d be happy to settle down too.

How have you guys balanced this? Lots of sex is great, but I find that interacting with the majority of women (as I’m sure is the case with men too, people really) can be exhausting. This is why I keep my friends circle small and tight, quality over quantity. Maybe I’m just not used to game but since it is somewhat contradictory to my normally very straightforward/direct personality, it “costs” me more emotional energy unless the interaction is particularly good.