Bit of backstory: I’m a 29M. I have very little experience when it comes to picking up women at bars or clubs. I only seem to be able to get dates and potential hook ups off dating apps. Not really looking for a relationship at the moment and wanting to just sleep around a bit but been having no luck on dating apps recently. I also want to get better and more confident at meeting women organically in real life and not rely on these shitty apps. Now would be the best time for me to start as I just got my very own one bedroom apartment that’s about a 5 minute walk to the busiest night life area in my city. I was considering even going to a club/bar alone if I have to to practice as I don’t have much friends who like going out. When it comes to talking to a woman that I hope to bring home at a club or bar, how do I approach getting to that point? Would I just start by talking to, buying her a drink and hanging out for a while then just popping the question asking if she wants to come back to my place if the vibe is right? How would I know when it’s a good time to ask? Any advice and tips would be appreciated.
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