How long should I wait till ask a girl to go out?

prettyassdolfin · 2024-10-28T02:16:51+00:00

I don’t think there’s much reason to delay doing so. If I meet a girl on Friday, I’ll text her on Saturday with plans for next week

Practical-Macaroon38 · 2024-10-28T02:23:01+00:00

It depends where you met them because this can affect the expiration of a connection.

For instance if it’s a girl that you met at a club who’s only in town for a trip, then she probably won’t care anymore if you text & ask her out in a week.

But, you also don’t want to ask way too quickly unless you guys flirted the idea of a date during your conversation.

Either way, I usually stick to anywhere from 1 hour to 2 days. If we think about it, if a girl truly liked you & is interested in seeing you again.. a couple of hours won’t make a difference.

If she’s not interested in a date, then there is no perfect time for asking her out because she’ll say no either way. But that doesn’t matter if she doesn’t agree, that’s just life & it shouldn’t be taken personally.

projectmale · 2024-10-28T11:28:09+00:00

Wait long enough to not appear desperate but not too long to appear indifferent. I’d say text the next day, set up a date within the week

alwayslearninggame · 2024-11-02T08:52:00+00:00

2 years. If they really like you, they will remember.

urmomsexbf · 2024-10-28T02:32:12+00:00

I normally ask em out in a day or two if I really like em. Hate being in a limbo.

Xab123 · 2024-10-28T02:18:53+00:00

The first phone call

SithLordJediMaster · 2024-10-28T02:23:16+00:00

3 days

"You're so money baby! You don't even know it!" - Swingers

Dandys3107 · 2024-10-28T08:08:57+00:00

Waiting should be rather a part of the process, for you to focus on your stuff, for girl to process emotions. Generally you don’t wanna let her forget you, you should give her space, but not let her go completely. So if you took her number after brief interaction, I would say next day is a deadline for you to escalate more.

Title	How long should I wait till ask a girl to go out?
Author	Realistic-Concert-21
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	October 28, 2024 2:06 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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