A couple days ago, I went through my connection requests and my jaw actually dropped when I saw this man’s profile picture. He’s insanely handsome and my exact type. I found his socials and he literally models on the side. Why was he trying to connect with me? We’re not in the same industry, I’m not his target market and he’s not mine. I accepted anyway and went about my day. A little later, I get a message from him - standard greeting, so I kept it friendly and professional. Long story short, he asked if he could pop by and introduce himself in person, I said sure…anything in particular you want to see/discuss? He said no, he just wanted to say hello. I’m not exactly sure the motives behind his visit, but I don’t care. He’s coming by tomorrow and we’re going to have lunch. If you were the guy in this scenario, how could a woman completely mesmerize/seduce you for you to ask her out, outside of work?