When I was younger, I never thought that I'd have to say the words I'm about to say. In fact, it was something that I strived to make sure never happened because of my parents going through it and seeing what it did. I wanted to make sure my family stayed in tact and were in a loving, healthy household. But life changes in an instant.

Today, I realize that it can be a blessing in disguise. It's the mark of not a whole new chapter, but a whole new damn BOOK for me. I can confidently say that this event has changed my life, and honestly for the good. I've found out who I am, and what I want in this life, and my kids are thriving with happiness.

Today, I can say... I'm OFFICIALLY divorced, and I'm excited for the future. I never thought that I'd see it this way, but truly, a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

You can do it, men.