In your opinion on average do women like the softer more feminine male look like leonardo dicaprio and tom holland or a more masculine traditional look?

rosesmellikepoopoo · 2025-01-01T01:03:24+00:00

Some girls like the more pretty boy, shaved, blond hair blue eyes look, some girls like the masculine, hairy, dark, big bear look. As you get older and more experience you’ll start to understand women have a ‘type’. But all women love a masculine natured man. That’s universal.

SinghStar1 · 2025-01-01T00:52:14+00:00

Unrelated, but your vibe matters just as much - especially your voice and posture. No point rocking a full beard and mustache if you sound like you’re asking for permission to exist.

Vermillion-Rx · 2025-01-01T00:06:24+00:00

They will tell you they like the softer look and fuck the harder look

Free_Economics3535 · 2025-01-01T03:36:18+00:00

Tom holland and younger Leonardo DiCaprio are softer but very good looking. Lean, bit of muscle, and very charismatic people I.e they are high value men.

Similarly you can have low value, bad looking, uncharismatic soft men. Think of like a whiny soyboy.

Same for harder men, they can be high value (Henry Cavill) or low value (overweight construction worker)

SnatchWhistle · 2025-01-01T02:05:50+00:00

You are who you are. Period.

Be that person. Wanting to cater to the desire of a woman is telling of your frame.

Nothing else needs said.

Delvilchamito · 2025-01-01T06:47:37+00:00

It is a simple question of age.

Between 15-20 they like the prety boys.

Between 20-40 they like chad

Between 30-50 they like Giga chads

Eastern-Resource-773 · 2025-01-01T02:05:17+00:00

The younger the women the more likely they are to like the pretty boy. When they get into the 20s more and more prefer more traditional masculine men.

Both groups more jacked os better though.

therealwoujo · 2025-01-01T02:26:36+00:00

Who cares? Why even think about this? Are you gonna change your "look" for women?

FromTheCaveIntoLight · 2025-01-01T16:22:32+00:00

Who gives a fuck! Women don’t even know what they want the majority of the time. Be awesome, look awesome, lean in your strengths and work on your weaknesses and there will always be woman that will fuck you and brag to their gf about. Trying to be something your not, or change into what you think women want, is a sure fire way to not actually create your own frame, which is the true equilibrium in the market place.

Mad_King · 2025-01-01T00:29:11+00:00

All the softer look woman like to fuck my harder look. They even deny/reject their own nature. I saw their fuck me eyes yet they are with soy boys. Woman is a crazy creature indeed and they dont even understand themselves. A chaos creation machine.

LeaderTrue4192 · 2025-01-02T08:17:20+00:00

It really depends on the ethnic and cultural background.

I have lived for over 12 years in Hong Kong and asians prefer very feminem (weak, gaylike in the eyes of western males) type of males, BUT they must be sucsessfull, famous or rich!

I still strongly believe asian men suffer the most to get into decent relationships.

Asians that like westerners want them often to be Tall! They do not care too much about muscles but Tall and financially well off that is their drive.

For white girls into black guys, they like muscular manly men, that are raw and unfiltred themselves and do not give a shit about anything (offset that against a nice white guy that is muscular, not always but seems to be more lust orientated by those white woman, if this comes across as racist or something let me know as i dont want to be out of line or make insinuations.)

White girls that like white guys in wester society for sure prefer muscular well defined men, financial standing is less important to them.

And then there is the small group of white woman into asian men, most often driven due a asian fetism, but by far the majority of white/black woman are not into asian men because they are mostly not musculair and not have a western male musclaine upbring.

I personally fall for asian woman because i like feminem woman that are small, fragile, cute and make me feel like a man.

(That is a trope of mine because it means my manlyhood is dictated by the cultural behaviour towards men is different, but i just cannot give a shit trying to fight for domination with a white girl, i am white btw)

Business-Cheesecake2 · 2025-01-01T01:09:54+00:00

Pretty boys when they young and looks insecure.

tuchad1997 · 2025-01-01T07:39:05+00:00

in Asia they prefer pretty boy. See all boyband and boygroup here.. the singers look more feminine with long hair

Fast_Amphibian5986 · 2025-01-01T16:44:17+00:00

If you are richer than her, it doesnt matter if you are feminine or masculine

Andgelyo · 2025-01-01T11:19:54+00:00

Younger women (teens to mid 20s) prefer pretty boy look. Older women (mid 20s and up) prefer masculine rugged look. The best is to have both features, for example, a pretty boy face but high dimorphic body (broad shoulders, strong arms, slim waist).

BroccoliMcFlurry · 2025-01-01T03:56:44+00:00

Lemme ask you this:

In your opinion, do guys on average like tall slim girls or short thicker girls?

Obviously it's all down to preference- you could meet identical twins & only one of them finds you attractive. There's no one-size-fits-all, we all have preferences.

Sub8591 · 2025-01-02T03:30:54+00:00

Androgynous they like both on a guy, ex nice lashes and strong jawline, or full lips and hunter eyes. Whetever it is they like a combination of it subconsciously. I also this is just a hypothetical but it might run along the lines of women being slightly attracted to other women.

Few-Spend2993 · 2025-01-02T16:03:49+00:00

Being feminine gets you into the door by being approachable

Available-Trip-6962 · 2025-01-02T21:18:27+00:00

No doubt masculine UNLESS the man looks ridiculously good, like a Matt Rife, then more feminine

Old-Stock-3167 · 2025-01-03T13:54:00+00:00

A woman could lose a friend and be in a sad mood. She needs comfort. Feminine looking dude is around. They fuck.

Another gets sick of her passive boyfriend who sits around collecting pop figures and playing games all day. She wants real dick and fucks the masculine looking dude.

End of the day it doesn't really matter. Do what works for you and nothing else. Besides. being in the right place at the right time is infinitely more important.

995fayez · 2025-01-05T07:16:45+00:00

I wish this sub always remains active in the face of coerced "modern" culture.

Far_Willingness_7809 · 2025-01-05T17:42:22+00:00

ideally, you should aim to have the right mix of both lookwise (which isnt 50/50), and to be sure in your masculinity personalitywise, which answers your question.

practically, accept the "type" you are, know your strenghts and work on amplifying them.

trying to look soft when your face is made to look hard will have awful results, and vice versa.

myeasyking · 2025-01-01T02:31:43+00:00

Traditional always wins.

academicRedditor · 2025-01-01T16:19:47+00:00

Depends on where in their menstrual cycle they are.

Follicular (before release of the egg)? DiCaprio. Ovulatory ++ (egg release)? Clooney.

SenseiRunIt · 2025-01-01T15:54:12+00:00

it all depends on the girl your asking…someone from the south whose conservative and has traditional beliefs? probably gonna be into a macho type of guy.

someone who’s from the north/big liberal city however? probably going to be into a lean pretty boy type of guy most likely.

hosea61000 · 2025-01-01T01:01:21+00:00

The loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, disciplined, faithful, and gentle look.

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Depends on where in their menstrual cycle they are.