Lacking Self Acceptance and getting easily attached

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-01-05T18:40:11+00:00

I don’t know if I should keep texting with this girl

Yes you do know. You’ve already addressed all the problems in your post.

I know how it feels. There’s bitterness and sadness you feel in your heart, right?

That means you’re disappointed; the outcome that you expect hasn’t materialized. You just keep investing without seeing any returns.

That means your body is subconsciously telling you that you’re sacrificing yourself for her. That it should be the other way around, that you should love yourself more than you love her.

Yourself is now brokenhearted that you chose her over him. You know what to do. Lift him up and tell him that you’re sorry. Don’t betray him anymore. Start loving him. By him of course it’s you.

Women may come and go, but the only one that stays loyal to you and always be there with you is yourself.

Green8812 · 2025-01-05T19:46:58+00:00

I really relate to this honestly

Electronic-Fix2851 · 2025-01-05T18:38:17+00:00

I think it’s important to not be too hard on yourself. How old are you? This is also just generally something that improves as you get older and accomplish more. You become more at ease with yourself and you start to believe that you’re actually worth something. That, plus you just don’t have time to worry too much about some girl, because you actually have stuff going on.

I think it’s important to get a firm grasp of who you are anyway. After that, you can also know who you want. You’ll then realize that basically nobody will check all the boxes for what you’re looking for. This makes it a lot easier to go like “actually, she’s not ideal anyway, so what if it doesn’t work.”

In short: improve your life and your career, focus on your hobbies, figure out who you are and what you look for in a woman who can complement that.

Ok-Class-1451 · 2025-01-05T22:46:24+00:00

If you don’t truly love yourself first, you’ll always be chasing after people who don’t love you, either.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-01-06T03:54:59+00:00

Attachment comes from scarcity, scarcity comes from the lack of self acceptance. You can give whatever you seek from women to yourself.

Maybe you want love, then be able give love to yourself. Same goes for all the other emotions you chase. My guide on inner game explains the techniques very well.

Internal-Ad-2650 · 2025-01-06T05:14:40+00:00

Check out Heidi Priebe’s YouTube channel. Maybe start with the videos on Limerence, but you could also just browse and see where your gut takes you. I’d also recommend reading the book Fantasy Bonds by Robert Firestone. If you can afford it and are open to the experience, therapy can and will help you immensely with this.

Top_Chocolate_4203 · 2025-01-06T15:50:01+00:00

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InstructionAbject763 · 2025-01-07T00:13:29+00:00

As a woman. Like what 90% of women do. Is when we get in this mindset it means we cannot be single or without a dopamine hit of a crush.

You need to actually spend time single and not dating. Like ignoring women and living a happy life without them.

We women do this a lot when we feel like our happiness depends too much on the men we date and or if we have a partner and how good that partner is (in the eyes of others)

Thus I'd we don't have a great guy, we feel insecure.

The mindset is to detach yourself from feeling worthless without a sexual or romantic partner. By figuring out who you are without a partner or a crush on someone.

And only u til you've reached peace being single are you ready for anything with anyone

Title	Lacking Self Acceptance and getting easily attached
Author	blaubarschbube27
Upvotes	15
Comments	12
Date	January 5, 2025 6:20 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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