How many men here have this experience? Or similar experiences?

Never been seen as a romantic interest but have someone else just given up because you don't understand women and they don't understand your problems?

Nobody ever contacts you first, you’ve never had romantic experiences nor girlfriend in your life, your work or effort in anything in life is never appreciated, you are always either forgotten or ignored, you are treated like just another statistic. Nobody actually cares about you. You are desperate because you want answers to your problems but cannot seem to find them or you know how to fix some of your problems but the solution is currently out of reach. Your problems have been going on for years, the longer they go on, the worse it gets. People sense your desperation or can somehow spot all your problems or flaws, then they slowly abandon you thus making everything worse. It seems nobody will help you, or if they do then the help you get is a lie, something you’ve already tried or even whether unintentionally or intentionally, the help or advice you get can harm you or make the problems ever worse. You have one major problem such as loneliness, but you also have several other problems, there are some problems you know about, and some you cannot pinpoint exactly what is wrong. I can go on, but is this an experience for most men here? Just several problems you have in life, and you’re just scrambling to find solutions for?