I had always struggled with environmental anxiety. I couldn't approach because I was too worried about what other people might think or say about me. I also had difficulty approaching girls who were in pairs or groups.
So today, I told myself, "Push yourself toward your fears." I approached 15 girls, but most of them were with someone—only 2 of them were alone. I kept my inner feelings in check, approached them with confidence, and completely shut the fuck up my inner voice before making a move.
I mostly approached girls with this opener:
"Hi, pardon me, excuse me. I hope I didn't scare you. I was passing by, and then I saw you. You caught my attention, and I told myself, 'I need to say hi.'"
Most of them responded well to my opener, but I couldn’t keep the conversation going. But man, I was way too selective. 😂 I almost only approached tall, thick girls in mini skirts and tights. They were so damn sexy!
By the end of the day, I didn't get any numbers or instant dates. In fact, I couldn’t even keep a conversation going for more than a minute. But at least, I overcame my approach anxiety.
Now, I just need to focus on making assumptions about the girl to keep the conversation flowing and staying in the interaction longer.!
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